Philosophy
It is a huge commitment to offer oneself as a slave for the rest of one's life. It is perhaps an equally big commitment to be responsible for owning another human being knowing that the slave is committed to accept any level of care or lack thereof.

I have probably in retrospect been a dominant my whole life. However, in my younger years I did not fully understand that nor did I have the confidence or material resources to adequately fulfill that role. At this point in my life I do. Thus I am posting here to see if this is the right venue to find my slave for life.

I am certainly not interested in any gold diggers. I have met enough of those and fallen for a few. Power and money does undeniably attract women. It's a primal search for security from a mate I suppose. I am also not interested in less mature persons out experimenting for a few months. Obviously, there is also a risk of finding candidates mentally off balance. If you are on this site due to deep-rooted, unresolved psychological trauma in your past, please also look elsewhere. I am looking for a mentally balanced person who is at peace with her lifestyle choice and can be fulfilled long-term in a very structured environment of servitude and enslavement.

Me, Myself, I
So who am I among the thousands of male posters here? Well, I am 46. I was born in Scandinavia but have lived half my life in the States. I am blond. 5’10”, 185 lbs. I have a responsible senior executive job with a major company whose products will touch your life almost no matter where in the world you live. While it is a white collar job, I enjoy practical work and, as a result, I am quite strong physically. My sports are swimming, rollerblading, basketball and car racing.

I was educated in the US and Europe. Two graduate degrees so too much education. I speak 4 languages well and am passable in a fifth. I can carry on a meaningful conversation about most contemporary, cultural and historical subjects. I enjoy culture, the arts, music of all forms, cooking and wine. I am definitely not a snob but I do intimidate a lot of people. I grew up poor and have never forgotten to be humble. I know my roots. Besides, good fortunes and health can always disappear. I am a loyal person but I don’t forget those who betrayed my trust. I do possess a strong personality, I like to be obeyed but I do come equipped with a good sense of humor.

I am not amazingly rich but I probably make more than 99% of the population. That enables me to offer a nice life style in beautiful surroundings. I live in a large Japanese-inspired house on a large piece of lake property. It is a beautiful spot, and presently features a male bald eagle along with plenty of deer, coyotes, beavers, turkeys and who knows what else.

I am a huge fan of president Obama. I am also an admirer of black women. To want a slave is definitely not a racist expression. I want a slave AND I happen to find black women very attractive. Incidentally, in Scandinavia, white slavery was practiced by feudal lords into the 1700s. My ancestors do not appear to have been of any means or stature. They were farmers, so I, myself am highly likely to be descended from white slaves - but definitely also from the Vikings.

I saw the movie The Story of O when I was about 12. I didn’t not have any revelation at the time. Besides, the explicit shots were really not very explicit so I was not too impressed. I then read the book at 40 years of age, and it had a profound impact on me. It was like having found your spot. I do enjoy to be obeyed and to administer discipline. I may have a bit of the Marquis in me without being a psychopath. I am also good a leading people and getting people to want to follow me entirely voluntarily : )

Sexually, I am quite insatiable. You will have no rights whatsoever to set any limits. It would be oxymoronic and defy the purpose. However, I can tell you what my hard limits are and, if we are lucky, maybe they will happen to overlap yours: No children, no SCAT, no permanent bodily harm. I tolerate tattoos but I am not a huge fan. I do enjoy administering spankings, canings, bondage, gyn exams, TENS, forced lactation and, infrequently, needle play. You will never be loaned out on your own but you may well be servicing others under my supervision. You will be disciplined as needed and at times also purely for my pleasure.

You
So enough Me, Myself, I. You should ideally be a black lady 18-35, with perhaps 24-30 being ideal. Curves are a plus as I Cannot Lie… You should have a personality that I will certainly mold strongly but not destroy. Intelligence is a plus. Education is good but not required.

You would be permitted to work outside of the house if desired/qualified. However, it would also be acceptable to have you entirely stay at the house. In any case, you will have significant domestic responsibilities. It is a big house with plenty of upkeep, and it better be done right.

You will be given a room to sleep in but you will be at 7X24 disposal. Your possessions would be put in storage. I like to have you be nude/topless depending upon season.

Mistress
To you, there is a mistress in the house. She is, of course, submissive to me. We are not married and we are not going to be married. We met after my divorce. I learned down the road that she, herself had been a serious domme up to and including administering some permanent markings at times. She is black, attractive and intelligent. Same age as me. Not necessarily bi but who knows. Mistress has suffered a severe traffic accident and lives with severe chronic pain. Her beginning to serve as my slave resulted in repressed memories of childhood molestations coming up. This rules out her future role as a slave but you would be serving under her as well. She would have tasks for you, which might or might not include sexual tasks but probably massages, baths etc. In case you wonder, we no longer have a sexual relationship. She is massively orgasmic but it’s a difficult situation.

My major sadness in life is the lack of children. My ex wanted no children. Mistress turned out to be too old to carry to term. (I would expect for you to eventually be bred by me and likely continue to lactate after that.)

Mistress has two out-of-state kids, 11 and 16. They are quite well behaved and pleasant to have around. They visit some weekends and holidays. In their company as well as in the company of our friends, you would be our domestic servant.

The location
The location is a nice suburb 20 minutes outside of Minneapolis. Minneapolis is highly culturally sophisticated and hip. Yes, Fargo, which is in North Dakota, was a funny movie. It is a place with beautiful summers and bitter cold winters where the sun in shining all winter. Contrary to popular myth, we get much less snow than Boston or NYC. Work might take us elsewhere eventually but you would come with the household.

Next steps
If this has peaked your interest, you should contact me. We can mail and talk on the phone. If we seem to have a match, I can invite you here at my expense. You can apprentice for a few weeks before we mutually decide if you should have my collar.

Greetings to Africa
PS. While I love visiting Africa, I am not in the immigration business, and I do not send anyone fully refundable airline tickets to anywhere either… The pictures you post are quite lovely nevertheless.

Thank you for considering this.