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Hi! My name is Ms. Raine,
I am looking for a submissive male to be my regular play partner.
I will take the time to consider all applications, but these things are imperative:
- Honesty: I will not waste my time with people that cannot be honest with me. BDSM is a lifestyle that often puts the submissive's life into the Dominants hands. I need to be able to trust my boy implicitly. Any measure of dishonesty, small or large will be grounds for immediate dismissal.
- Communication: I need to be able to trust that you will let me know if the rope on your right wrist is too tight. I need to be able to trust that you will call red when you need to. I need to be able to trust that you will tell me what your hard limits and triggers are before we play and that you will not be afraid to be clear and precise about these things. This is a responsibility that we will both share, for the safety of the submissive, and the dominant.
-Marital Status: I will not consider submissives that are married, or in a current relationship. There are too many things that can go wrong. I do not deal with cheaters, or people that lie to their significant others. If I find the submissive to be lying about this, it will be grounds for immediate dismissal. Men that are separated from their spouse may be given consideration depending on the situation.
~ Right now, all I am looking for is a regular play partner in the lifestyle that can also be a friend. One that I can spend time with and have things to talk about whether we are in the scene or not. Please bear in mind that I am not planning on moving forward with ANY relationship without much time, communication, and thought. Any pushing for a relationship, romantic or in the d/s aspect will be considered topping from the bottom, and will be dealt with accordingly.~
Ok.. If you have gotten this far and are still interested, congratulations! Now into the fun stuff!
My two biggest interests right now are pet play and rope bondage. Those who enjoy being tied up, and enjoy being a pet will get primary consideration. The type of pet can be any type. Puppy, Kitty, or otherwise. This is something that I want the submissive to have full control over, because I want it to be a mirror of their true self and personality.
Other things that I am well trained in and enjoy are:
-Knife play
-Wax play
-Rope play (yay!)
-Pet play (yay!)
-Sensation play
-Impact play
-Needle play
-Foot worship
-Breath play
-CBT
-Snuggling :)
The submissive does not need to be into all of these things. This is just a small sampling of the things that I enjoy. If there is ever anything that I do not know how to do, that we are interested in trying together, I will be happy to use every resource available to learn the activity safely, and accurately!
If we speak and we determine that you and I would be a good match, then this is the order of things:
-I would want to talk to you for a bit online first to see if we should take the next step in meeting
-Then we would meet at a public place for coffee or something like that and chat more (at this point I will give you a yes no maybe chart on bdsm activities to fill out at home. This will give me a good idea of what you are into.
-If all of that works well, (after much communcation) on a Thursday night, we will go to the Woodshed, A BDSM dungeon in Orlando for our first scene. It is quiet there on Thursday nights, and there aren't many people there. By then, we should have had much time for negotiations. If we click during our first scene, we will discuss the possibility of a regular arrangement!
I will not go to any private residences for scenes or meetings until I have had MUCH time to get to know someone. It is not safe for me, or the submissive.
If you have gotten this far, then you are amazing!!
Thank you for taking the time to read all of my rambling! If you would like my consideration, please write me a note on here with your favorite ice cream flavor in the first line of the chat, or message. , or your email will be deleted
Have a great day!!!
:)
~Ms. Raine
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