A little more about me....

Like everyone, I would enjoy finding that elusive life-mate that I can spend my days and nights with comfortably, all the while enhancing our lives with D/s. I am more a gentleman Dom, and spend sufficient time communicating to ensure we're on the same page, know our limits, and are comfortably in this together. I do not break the skin. I'm committed to aftercare. My personal experience includes: massage, genital and breast play, anal sex, restraints, wax, temperature, sensation, aroma, public play, exhibitionism, leash, collar, floggers, crop, scraping, pervertibles, vibrators, butt plugs, kneeling, fisting, forced wearables, blindfolds, deep throat gag, biting, suction, orgasm control, G-spot control (including squirting from women who'd never experienced it), clips, clamps, hair pulling, food play, obedience training and behavior modification, over the knee spanking, paddling and, of course, hound and horny lovemaking. 

I am a sensual man, love the process of taking over and lifting a woman to new heights, and live for the mind-meld between a consenting D/s couple. Caresses, massages, romance, sleeping soundly - before, during and after all of the above. I'm mostly sensual, but I do enjoy that fine line between pleasure and pain (see kink chart below). I have immersed myself in learning about sexuality and have been blessed to be able to pleasure my lovers to their sated soul's content. I've learned to read and respond. Now, versed and aware, I want to take my sexuality up several notches. I am open to both a play friendship or partner relationship that includes D/s. It may take some time, but that's ok - I'm a nice guy that loves meeting new people. I'm looking for a woman who enjoys being with me. That starts with communicating. If you're willing to communicate, I'm willing to be present and reciprocate. Learning, discovering, exploring, loving - that's what this world is all about, IMHO.

Meanwhile, I've have decades of thinking about and doing, have a bright, (devilish) agile mind, and have plenty to work with. I'm fit, toned, active, athletic. Words and phrases I've heard women use to describe me: handsome, adorable, cute, amazing, "never met anyone like you," "kindest man I've ever met," "I've never cum like that before," "just the right amount of quirk." And though (some) women say it doesn't matter lol, I'll add this: the word my last two gfs used to describe my manhood: "perfect."

I'm just coming into a new era, it seems. For decades I'd try to be the "socially acceptable fine young man (and then, more mature man)" my parents and upbringing expected me to be. There were some things around the edges, though, that seemed to indicate something a bit less "socially acceptable."

If they only knew... *wink

This note is basically a thank you to sugarplum30064 who stepped up to befriend me less than a month ago. My eyes have been opened and my mind activated - again! - finally! since meeting her and accompanying her to 1763 two weeks ago.

What's amazed me about 1763 is the realization that, within some very malleable limits, everything is good. I've seen some incredible scenes there, including a DP scene involving eel and octopus. I watched that in rapture almost, with furries and latex dolls walking by, intrigued by God's breadth and understanding and acceptance of his kinky, but wonderfully loving, humans. Seeing the lovely bottom climax as her partner held her in the shower at the end of this very long and intense scene, well... it's all God.

Watching the regulars, Sirs James and Morgan, and Niho, and Omegamann, I realize I have a few things I would like to do, and Master. I know it's not a race, and I know consistency will be the key. But I see it, and I know I can get there. It's less hope and more surety, if that makes sense.

Since going there, and never once feeling out of place, I realize I am indeed coming into a new era, a new growth era. It's been a long time. So thank you, sugarplum. Sorry I missed you last night!