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Please Note: Scamming and false pretense to elicite money is a federal crime and will be reported. Thanks for taking a look at this profile. I am in search of a second submissive for my house that will eventually be a consensual slave. I am not into scat or it's use; but I am into building up self esteem, self image, and a sense of self value as a submissive within my house. Given that, I will take total and absolute control of your life, your beliefs, your behaviors, and pretty much everything else. I can do this because I am responsible as well as caring and I want to see you succeed in a positive way with in my house. With that I am highly experienced in psychology as well as behavior modification. I have an extensive background that ranges from medical, to bondage, edge play and just about anything you might be interested in. This is not a place for those who think they will be lazy, this is not a fantasy fulfillment nor is it weekend play (if all you want is we can play I don't have a problem that but let's call it for what it is). This is a good house that places very strict levels of behavior and attitude. It is also a place for laughter, sexuality, friendship… And yes even cuddling. Lying, disrespect, attitude or belligerence is not tolerated in any way shape or form. There are rituals that you will follow as well as rewards for your enhancements and good behavior. Training within itself is primarily to teach you the ways my house, to change your attitude and behavior, to teach you to be a better person and discover your submission in a healthy environment. This does not mean it will be easy because change of this sort is never easy. Once change has been affected, you will find a greater happiness for being a part of this house. All of your current beliefs and thought processes will be challenged, you will indeed find and discover a totally new way of thinking and you'll become part of something that is greater than yourself. Most importantly of all you will know that you belong somewhere in that feeling within itself is worth everything.
6/17/2011 11:57:24 AM

It ceases to amaze me to see these little girls in their teens or 20s claiming to be a dominant when in fact they are usually living at home or have been living away from their parents only a year or two at best. At the very least they have little to no life experience beyond the suckling of their mother's nipples, and yet they have the audacity to call themselves dominant. This narcissistic attitude is nothing more than a dysfunctional brat that uses selfishness and arrogance is a poor substitute to real responsibility and true dominance.

2/25/2009 10:21:42 AM

“The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it.”

– Chinese Proverb

2/1/2009 1:40:33 PM

Recent Books I have read, ones I am currently reading, and those in line to read:

 

The prophetic Revelations of Paul Solomon by W.A. Wheeler

Protocols by R. Rubel

Master/Slave Relationships by R. Rubel

Ansir for One by seich & Clarke (ansir.com)

Hidden Truth by Steven Green M.D.

Physics of the impossible by Michio Kaku

Visions by Michio Kaku

Hyperspace by Michio Kaku

Liars, Lovers, Heroes by S Quartz and T Sejnowski

1/19/2009 10:35:54 AM
Once a slave understands and discovers that her existance is more complete and fulfilled in obediance, then everything else falls into place and they discover a freedom that all others only talk and dream about. It takes life experience and maturity to really be a slave from the heart.

A young slave will ask what's in it for her, where a mature slave will ask how she can serve and fit into your house.
1/18/2009 6:54:17 PM

Caring for a Cane:

This is dependent upon the environment that you live in. For example if you live in a humid or a dry-desert environment.

Many canes, although very pretty in appearance have been sealed with something. This is very bad for them as they will dry out eventually and will become brittle... they break on your slaves butt or wherever you are using it on.

When you purchase a cane, if it is sealed with a polyurethane the first thing that I do is to use a box cutter and shave or scrape three sides of the cane down it's whole length. I then cut the tip off and re-form the tip so that it is open to absorb water.

Place the cane in water submersing it as much as you can so that it will absorb the water and not dry out. Since I live in the high desert, I will do this once or twice a week to keep my canes supple and flexible so they don't split or become brittle. It would be nice to have a humidor for canes...<chuckle>

You don't have to do this so much in a wet area that has high humidity... in that case you have to sometimes watch out for mold or fungi growing on the cane. You don't want to accidentally cut the surface of the skin and infect it with some organic fungi.

Be sure to use the correct force based upon the size of the cane that you are using. With a small diameter of about 3 or 4 mm, you want to use more of a flicked wrist action without a lot of power, this can easily cut the skin. The next size larger 4 to 6 mm is one of my favorites... it inflicts a good line on the skin without breaking the skin. But you do have to be careful that if you hit to hard then even with the flexibility you can break it on your slave...

The next size would be 6 to 9 mm... this is a very solid cane that gives a good whump... it thuds and can still sting quite well. This is what is used in Singapore for punishment as it is sturdy. Yes, it can still cut the skin so be creful. Also this size and larger can cause internal bruising as well so you have to know your physiology very well!!!

You want to play, have fun, and not break your toy - slave... Be responsible playing on the edge and always work on learning more about the human body if you want to use it and push it to the extreme. At the very least take a class in female physiology and learn how it is put together, how it works, and everything else you can. Things like the reproductive system, the hormonal system, the lymphatic system, how the breasts are made up including the various layers of skin, milk ducts, fat, etc... if you play with it, You need to know about it as well as how it functions so that you will not accidentally cause harm.

Remember you are the Master and you are responsible... the buck ends with you. Don't be a putz...

10/9/2008 4:12:14 PM

Within the dynamics of choosing not to resist, choosing to obey, choosing to submit, we have what I’ll call “slavery-lite”. When you delve into the process of coercion, or pure behavior modification, the choice to submit is erased. There is no choice because there is no other conceivable alternative but to submit. The choice is found only when you originally submit yourself to behavior modification.

In certain circles it’s referred to as Internal Enslavement. or IE

IE is defined as “Intensive, forcible indoctrination, [...] aimed at removing a person’s basic convictions and attitudes and replacing them with an alternative set of fixed beliefs.”

So it’s not, to me, a matter of choice. It’s not that I would choose to obey because I’m a consensual slave, but that I would choose to obey because it would cease occurring to me not to. Whether born out of excitment of going extreme for real, which seems to be one of the most reasons of IE, the outcome is pretty intense.

This is where you put your life where your mouth is... this is where a slave moves from player and pretender to living this life for real. This is where the slave finally understands the true meaning of being totally free of herself, society programming, and finding bliss in service.

10/9/2008 4:05:58 PM
No I am not religious... I am practical and down to earth.
9/9/2007 1:17:42 AM



“It is a law of nature that women should be held under the dominance of man.” ~ Confucius (ca. 500 BC)


"Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you." ~ Genesis 3:16


"A proper wife should be as obedient as a slave." ~ Aristotle (384-322 BC)


"The male is by nature superior and the female inferior; one rules and the other is ruled."
~ Aristotle: The Politics, Book I


"Men's courage is shown in commanding and women's in obeying."
~ Aristotle: The Politics, Book I


"Fortune is like a woman; if you wish to master her, you must conquer her by force. Moreover, she is more willing to be conquered by forceful men of ability than by timid cowards." ~ Niccolo Machiavelli (1469-1527): The Prince


"Woman in her greatest perfection was made to serve and obey man, not rule and command him." ~ John Knox (1505-1572)


"The husband hath by law power and dominion over his wife, and may keep her by force, within the bounds of duty, and may beat her, but not in a violent or cruel manner." ~ Sir Francis Bacon (1561-1626): Maxims of the law

 
"Love well, whip well." ~ Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790): Poor Richard


"Nature intended women to be our slaves. . . They are our property, we are not theirs . . . They belong to us, just as a tree which bears fruit belongs to the gardener." ~ Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821)


"Woman is by nature meant to obey." ~ Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860)


"You go to a woman? Do not forget your whip."
~ Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900): Thus Spoke Zarathustra, XVIII: Old and young women


"Woman is essentially a Phallus worshipper . . . permeated with a fear like that of a bird for a snake. . . It has never until now been made so clear where the bondage of women lies; it is in the sovereign, all too welcome power wielded over them by the Phallus." ~ Otto Weininger (1880-1903)


"Women, by nature, want to be dominated." ~ Jayne Mansfield (1933-1967)

Every woman adores a Fascist,
The boot in the face, the brute
Brute heart of a brute like you.
~ Sylvia Plath (1932-1963): "Daddy"
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 Age: 30
  New York