I’ll try to simplify this as much as possible, so I’m not misleading anybody nor giving anyone false hopes or direction: I am into the combination of sex, pain and submission; nothing extreme (meaning, I’m not hell bent on executing the whole catalog of perversions in the 120 Days of Sodom) – you know, paddling, caning, tit slapping. I pretty open and will be more than happy to do most other things, but these are the core. I am looking for a female mirror image – one who is interested in being on the receiving end; I don’t know if that makes her a submissive, slave, pain slut, call it what you will – labels don’t matter to me. We will negotiate limits upfront and hopefully establish the necessary level of trust, but within those, she will be required to submit to my will and put herself under my control. I’ve done it before so I have a modicum of experience.

Other than that particular character trait, the following tidbits may also prove relevant: I’m married and not looking to change that; consequently, I can’t host, can’t post a picture and require discretion; we will likely have to engage in these activities somewhere in the tri-state area. I’m good shape, tall, strong but not dark. I can discuss Roman history, French film and/or the Coming Economic Collapse (or is it here already?) and won’t bore us to death with football, baseball and similar nonsense.