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I enjoy giving light bondage, erotic situations, light biting, using toys on you... And more we can explore. I am more about pleasure, than pain.
Always safe, sain, consentual!
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I realized, earlier this year, that if I am comfortable, I am stagnant. I have decided to awaken myself by trying to constantly live outside my comfort zone, where it is possible to learn new things, for myself and not out of books.
Trying to find my community. I have moved to the Philippines and have not decided on a city. I do know that I am not interested in the north or the southern islands. So, you would need to relocate to the central islands.
I have been in and around several alternate lifestyles in the US for a number of years. Including Swinging, Poly-fidelity and the beginnings of a D/s relationship. I have been to many dungeons and munches.
I am a Dom but I am more interested in pleasure than pain. I believe in training and education. I think you need to finish school with a degree. Sub training should be secondary to college education, or trade school. In sub training some pain may be involved, but only minor. I train slowly, building up basic your skills, vocabulary, understanding of the diversity this lifestyle offers, so you can find your own way, to what it is you like the most.
I expect our experience together to go in a normal progression. Through a vanilla startup, while we are becoming friends first, we can discuss what we like and what we don't. We need to build a relationship, develop trust and understanding.
I am very much against those I see who just want to jump into a 24/7 slave relationship with no knowledge of who they are submitting to. Very scary in an area of the world with so much real human trafficking going on. Please be careful ladies.
I do NOT expect you to have a lot of experience, but you are required to have the ability to communicate. While quietness may be a good quality, your ability to communicate with me is the most important trait you can have. It will keep you safe, make you happier and free you to explore.
You must be okay with me seeing and training others, I cannot be monogamous. I DO believe in lifetime commitments, but not marriage. If you were to become my sub, you must be willing to share with others, that is not your choice to make, but mine.
I believe in safe sex at all times. Fidelity is part of that. I expect you to be committed to our family. You will need to be tested for STDs. You will use condoms and dams until such time as I deem safe.
I will NOT support you financially. I would expect you to work and help provide for the household. Everyone in the household must contribute in some way. Not just cleaning or childcare, but some money for household needs. I would expect you to cooperate as if in a family, so that if something ever happened to me, you would have some savings and health insurance. As we are a family to help each other. Do not expect me or the others in the family to carry your burden. A Submissive should never be a burden. You should keep yourself clean and in good health.
Not that surveys are meaningful, but it adds some depth:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
89% Dominant
86% Master/Mistress
71% Rigger
71% Daddy/Mommy
66% Experimentalist
66% Non-monogamist
60% Voyeur
56% Owner
55% Submissive
53% Sadist
51% Rope bunny
47% Ageplayer
37% Exhibitionist
35% Vanilla
34% Switch
30% Boy/Girl
11% Primal (Hunter)
4% Brat
3% Masochist
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Slave
1% Pet
0% Degradee
0% Degrader
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| Age: 30 |
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