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My Disjointed thoughts....

It’s all about the mind…what my brain can come up with to play with your brain.

I love the power exchange dynamic. I love watching a woman struggle a little with her submission. When a strong woman submits to you that it something to behold, she is actually giving you her gift of submission. A woman with no spirit submitting is meaningless…she is submissive in all thing so her submission to me is no more meaning full than her submission to the world in general.

I’m not a mean dom….meaning I’m not going to verbally abuse you…artlessly beat you... Obviously in some way humiliation is part of the dynamic…crawling on command is humiliating, but it isn’t belittling. I don’t think the dynamic is served by breaking down a subs self confidence….actually I firmly believe the opposite is true.

At best I am at the edge of the scene. I’m not much for dressing up and posing. I do like to play in clubs though…something about the audience is a big turn on for me.

I’m not much for the 24/7 dynamic as most people know it. I do expect that you will respond appropriately at the correct time. If we go to the grocery store I don’t expect you to wait for me to tell you what to buy….but if I choose to tell you to only buy food that is green I expect to be obeyed.

And speaking of obeying….I spank. Often. It is the fetish that led me onto the path and it is still drives me. Over my knee, bare, getting paddled…you really need to be into it to be with me.

I do use safewords, play safe, etc. I have no issues moving slowly...I don't want to push you past your limits...just right up to the bleeding edge of your limits.

Lastly…I’m not much for the DS rules that seem to sprout all over the internet. I think they are written mostly by men living in their parent’s basement.

My Ideal Person: More Disjointed thoughts

Be a smiling happy woman with a life outside of your subbieness.

You should have a life you are happy with...or at least pretty happy with. My domination will make the good parts of your life even better. My domination is not going to solve all your problems.

I like being around creative thinkers...with a sense of personal style.

and Sassy....I like sassy. Not topping from the bottom but a nice splash of vinegar. Perhaps playful is the word.

And want to have sex. If not the first time we play then pretty soon thereafter. This notion a read about with people playing and never cumming....I don't get it. There is just something wrong there
iwannaserveher
 
 Age: 22
 Jupiter, Florida