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Hetero Male Dominant, 50,  Fields of elysium, Virginia
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No BS No Drama No Lies

If you prefer a full profile to read, go to my first journal entry.

I don't know if it's Virginia, or a reflection of the ratio of women to men on CM, or that this site attracts only the grandiose, delusional, selfish, and timid ....

but it's time for a change. so ...

if you REALLY ARE interested/curious and real, then you should leave me a message. I'm not leaving messages for awhile here.


enjoy the lifestyle mentally, sensually, sexually, photographically

as an experienced, multi-talented, balanced, respectful, grounded, dom.

I like

sharing, teaching, training, playing with

those who are sincere and honest with me.

Like anyone

eventually I want to share with one, but that takes

discipline and devotion, by both, through time and experiences.

Intelligent, creative, insightful, sincere, powered by shibumi.











Last Online:


 Dominant Male

 Fields of elysium 


 5' 9"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:


 Photography (Expert)


 Horseback Riding


 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)


 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish




 Vacuum Stimulation (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax play (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)


 Horror Movies

 Writing (Expert)


 Rock Music



 Martial Arts



 Anal Play (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Dilation (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Fire Play

 Fisting (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling


 Leashes (Expert)

 Masks (On Partner)

 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions


 Board Games

 Card Games


 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 TV News

 Web Surfing




 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)



 Physics (Expert)


 Psychology (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 EMO Music

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music


 Punk Rock Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes





 Blue Grass

 Country Music

 Curious About:

 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Masks (Wearing)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation

 Electronica / EDM





 Hard Limits:

 Hip Hop Music


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Journal Entries:
2/22/2012 7:52:33 PM

   Well ... I thought I copied my old profile here, when I took it off the profile page, but apparently I hit the back button, instead of save. Oh well .. maybe it's time I rewrote this anyway. Before I start, and you read any further, the reason why I have all those photos of other women in my profile pics, is because I shoot creative erotic/fetish photography, when there is interest .. which sadly, isn't often enough. I get plenty of compliments and many opinions expressed to have someone shoot the same of them, but ... it usually ends there. So ... about me ...


   I am a straight dom. My time shared is important to me, and so, I am particular who I will spend time with. I am not here for a one time deal. I want and need an emotional/mental connection to be happening between us, or I lose interest. We start off as friends, maybe friends interested in more, maybe you are looking for a protector, teacher, or play experience ... maybe more. ALL are welcome, all that I ask is be open, honest, and consistent with what you say and do! Typically, I prefer true submissives. It just fits more easily. A slave is desireable, but too often expects, needs, or requires micro-management. I would want a slave that is a slave to me, not lost in the world without me. Switches .... if you are mainly sub and only desiring to top occasionally, it 's possible. I do prefer someone who has a head on their shoulders, owns their heart/feelings, and expresses their needs appropriately and respectfully, as I do to others. Dommes ... something of a fantasy conquest to have a Domme submit, and if it was truly touching for both, I would be more likely to enjoy sharing her Domme others, or with me. Bisexual .... no problem .... I am not in the slightest bit, nor am I a jealous or possessive type as I am secure and comfortable with who I am, and I am straight, but not narrow (minded). Of course I would love to share, but I also know that is not always the case. Poly ... as a fantasy sounds wonderful .. in reality, usually ends in drama or disaster.


   Sexually passionate, creative, and sensually focused. It's expressed like my musical tastes ... Sensually .... the classics .... crescendo/descrescendo .... movements ... Passionately, rock n roll ... the blues ... funk/punk ... industrial ..... Creatively, touch, temperature, taste, kisses, breath, voice, mental, temptation, teasing, pleasing, restraint, control, direction, bondage, blindfolds, fantasy, spanking, variety of toys/props, or none ... I am well experienced and not hesitant, but I am respectful, preferring someone I cherish as she is and behaves.


   Obviously, your level of experience or lack of it is not what matters ... it is simply if we have the chemistry of understanding the basics: openess, honesty, respect, expressiveness, playfulness. I can be a serious, deep, reflective person at times, more often i am fun,  relaxed and easy going while a gentleman, other times, but rarely,  I can be a smart ass,, crass twisted humor, yet harmless SOB. I know this doesn't sound like the typical nurturing person description, but to me, being real and genuine with one's feelings and thoughts, moods and words, with ONLY care for another, is real nurturing. Oh ... and I have taken care of myself all my life (and raised my daughter ALONE), but I would still eventually want ONE. I am a professional (nurse), own my home (beautiful large home on seven acres), love animals (especially dogs and horses), love being outdoors, love random road trips and being a bum at home when I have earned it.


Lol ... if you can deal with most of that ... then maybe you should send me a message. But, remember ... we start as friends ... no expectations. Let's write, maybe meet/talk on the phone, and take it as it comes .... I do not tolerate a woman that tries to manipulate, no matter how sibtle you may think you can be and get away with it ... you won't with me. Keep it honest and real. I have much more comfort in an honest " I don't know", than I do in a feeble attempt to impress me or think you can tell me what I want to hear. The only things I want to hear is what you really think and feel. Nothing made up. If we become good friends, let's enjoy that. If I am your good teacher or play partner, let's be that. If things are getting better and BOTH want something more serious, we talk about if we are sure each of us are ready for that ... not just one of us.


I'm sure I have scared off most of you. Good. I only want friends and woman of substance close to me that I can trust, talk to, have fun with, and ....?

4/29/2011 12:36:24 PM

Stay True to Your Path


To know yourself, one must be humbly honest as to who you really are and how you behave, with clear eyes and heart, embracing your stregths in life and accepting your weaknesses and faults. It is important to balance what you see as "good" and "bad" ... "strong" and "weak". It may mean being brutally honest with yourself to see clearly. Reflect on what you see as "bad" and decide is it truly bad idealistically, or is it really more a weakness that you need to accept, understand better, and improve upon in life.  Anything remaining as truly bad, selfish, or unjust/unfair must be stopped immediately. Reflect on how to behave more honestly and openly, without shame or embarrassment. Doing so, will feel awkward and unlike your past self, at first, but others true to themselves, will see it as refreshing and recognize your true self striving. It will attract others that understand this and live this way, and they will gravitate to you. You'll be suprised the relief it brings inside and the barriers with others that fall away.  You will attract those who strive for the same openess and honesty in themselves and others. Only those blind to their own true self, will lose interest in you. This is a good thing. 


If you remain open and honest to yourself, practice being this way around others. I call this learning to swim in life.  Recognize the beautiful power and peaceful strength  of this inner balance. Those who  project power thru titles, money,  pretense, fronts, intimidation, or manipulation reveal their insecurities, weaknesses, and have no path to share with you. They will only use, abuse, and discard you without reason.


Now ... you are ready for good  love ...


First ... you must love yourself JUST AS YOUARE.

Take stock of what are your steady good qualities. Balance these with ALL your  baggage of weaknesses, flaws, insecurities, superficial beauty, personality quirks, fears, needs, grief, and uncertainties. This can be a struggle in our culture's focus for purity in beauty, character,  conformity of behaviors, superficial appearances, pecking orders, despite the irony of it being a free and equal society. To love yourself as you are, means you are doing the first step above: open and honest to who and how you are. First learn it,  accept it and know it,  understand it with the commitment to always try and improve the negative taste of it over time (it takes a lifetime!), and then ...


LOVE yourself fairly, humbly, and UNCONDITIONALLY

(outside of always trying to become a better you).


 Your understanding of self and love will change, grow, metamorphis continually over time .... it will always deepen if you do this. Now, you learn to swim deeply! While you still frolic on the surface now and then!




You are ready to share real and true love like never before. Never. Love is a verb, a continual action. It is not always easy, effortless, completely natural (we are after all just as capable of hate, hurt, deceit, delusion, ratuionalization), whether with ourselves or others. The lines betwen our categorizations of love blur, and we realize the love for friends compared to the idealized love of one, is the same real true love inside us and them. What  differs, is how MUCH of our honest self is truly shared openly and honestly,  and is  returned and understood, without conditions, by others. Think about it.


Swim deeply with others and frolic on the surface!




9/6/2009 11:43:24 PM

I have native american heart, blood, and soul in this mainly caucasian shell. This is why my 'D'  is easy to adapt to your 's' desires, spoken and unspoken. This is why such things as honesty, respect, tolerance, and balance are so highly valued: they are essential supports for any D/s experience to grow strong in its unique wildness, and, bloom brilliantly in an unending cascade of ever changing experiences.

While my behavior/personality as Dom varies with the chemistry of my 's' companion, I do recognize one steadfast presentation, whether it is front and center, or underlying my behavior:

honesty and strength in my eyes, words, and touch ... able to orchestrate harmony of pleasure from fuzziness and even chaos ... teaching awareness of rythmms, the tides of sensations, as well as learning  the purpose of conflict, differences, and obstacles ... shared responsibility ... and that underlying ALL of our life actions is the pursuit of Love, whether it is through pleasure, pain,  or both.

"Love has no other desire but to fufill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving."

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