Collarspace.com

There are many profiles out there and many people who are just trolling and looking for easy sex.

The first thing I want to say is this is about something REAL no games no SH!T. I have read lots of profiles and have many thoughts. But I want you to know my thoughts on how I view this lifestyle.

First things first this is about a LIFEstyle. Means you have to be willing to live it. At the same time living it doesn’t mean exposing the world to it. There is a place and time for every aspect and level of the lifestyle. It is also a relationship. This means you start to go down a two way road with your partner. It isn’t all about one person it is about both. The Master should and does take as much care of the sub and she does to him. The type of care is just different. The last thing is since this is a Lifestyle and a relationship this is about a deep conection you must connect os so many different levels then just one thing or another. You must mesh id you want it to last. If you just want sex then it is another thing but a the connection is so hugely important.

That is just a little about my thoughts. Feel free to contact me if you wish to talk more.

11/17/2008 1:23:31 PM
I hope this finds everyone well.  I also wish you all a happy thanksgiving.

I have had a few thoughts I want to share. 

Why do people put body part pictures on there profile.  When one should want to get to know the mind first.  Yes attactivness helps but if it cant be backed up then does it matter.

Another issue is why are people so into acting on the site.  I am finding it harder and harder to find people who are what and who they say they are. 

These things make it hard when one is serching for a good connection.  But as the days pass and we stay at it we learn and grow and will find a good if not Great match.
mary2ite
 
 Age: 48
 Fountain, Colorado