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I am ultimately seeking a full time, long term, relationship with a submissive woman. I feel one of my strong suits is working with those that are new. I am considerate, patient, enjoy being tender, and passionate. But make no mistake, I can be as firm as is required. I am a huge believer in communication. I particularly enjoy intelligent submissives, and those with a spirit. However, I also have an appreciation for the shy and meek, as long as, you have a MIND, and will use it. I do not want a doormat, and I will NOT suppress your creativity or imagination.
My ideal long term situation would be a 50's household, or taken in hand, or domestic discipline type relationship. I do not just "play in the bedroom" - this is the life I want to lead. And it's not just kink and sex for me (though I would never discount those *wink*), it's a mindset.
I want you to be an invaluable asset to us, to me, to you. I want your knowledge, your opinion, your insight. I will use that. But it will ultimately be up to me how to best use your assets. I will care about your desires, and your needs will even be placed above mine - but in my way, in my time, and as I decide. And I want to earn your trust to the point where this is not an issue for you, but in fact, you would have it no other way.
If you are experienced, and you think I sound soft - you are wrong. If you are new, you will be taught how to discover your submission without having it forced, scared or beaten into you. You will discover your heart and mind must submit before your body possibly can. And if I can't do that for you, I will advise you to find One that can.
I am not married, and not attached. I have many years of experience (more than a dozen now), and have lived in a 24/7 D/s situation. I know well the trials of living this full time, and know that all is not play. I understand applying this to everyday life, as well as the bedroom. I live in a rural area, near family and friends, I have a professional career. I need someone that can be social and discrete in public, even though the natural D/s roles will still be there for us to know and realize, but in a way that no one else does. I can dominate you in public with a look, or seemingly innocent touch, that is not noticeable to anyone - only you and I will know. But it will be just as effective.
I will exchange pictures upon request, when there is sufficient interest. I will openly answer questions - but only when the interest level has reached the point where it is warranted. I'm tired of pouring out my life story to those that are not serious.
I am easily approachable, and easy to talk with. I will not "look down" on you because you are submissive, and I will not start out trying to dominate you before you submit to me. Feel free to communicate openly with me, as you would any friend, for that is how we get to know each other. If you are nervous about saying something properly, or how to phrase and what to capitalize, then unclear protocols are inhibiting our communication, and I don't want that.
I would love to hear from you.
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