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Do these work again???
I'm hesitant to update my profile though.
I should point out that I am currently 51. |
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Sometimes, it would just be nice to chat with someone - no pressure - just get to know each other a bit. |
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Wow - been a very long time since I've posted here.
Not much has changed really. I'm older, and I reckon uglier. :)
One thing is for certain though, I'm still looking for the right one. |
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So it's been awhile since I've posted here, but I recently had a thought. I was singing this song with a buddy of mine the other night - doing the karaoke thing. Zac Brown Band and Alan Jackson doing "As She's Walking Away," and a thought occurred to me. If you're not interested in someone, just let them know. We're all adults here. Well, we're supposed to be anyway, and I know that not everyone here acts like an adult. Anyway, the point is, if you're interested in someone, let them know. If you're not, well go ahead and let them know that too.
If you're not familiar with the song, here's a link to the video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tthIHXUsPs |
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Heading to River Street in Savannah, GA for the St. Patrick's Day festivities.  |
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For what it's worth, I'll never be the knight in shining armor, riding up on a white horse.
I'm more like the one in the dented, scratched, and bloodied armor on the tired and dirty horse, with the wounds I've endured to get this far. |
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To misquote the legendary Mark Twain, "The rumors of my death have been greatly exaggerated."
As have the rumors of me actually being in a relationship. ;)
Anyway, I needed a break for awhile, but I'm coming back a little. I'm looking forward to hearing from some old friends and making some new ones, and I wish all of you the best in the coming year. |
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Pics will be back up shortly - had to make a couple of additions/updates since I'm getting older and all. I reckon it beats the alternative though. ;) |
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Another year older. Dadgum, time flies. :) |
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Another good one:
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." |
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I've always liked this saying:
"Never make someone a priority when you're only an option"
Just always remember that it goes both ways.
In other words, never expect to be a priority to someone that is only an option. :) |
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Just memorializing leap day  |
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I found this in another journal and liked it so I had to share - thanks silver
"How desparate must one be in order to send out an impersonal letter in a lifestyle that requires very personal attentions?"
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one thing I've learned about this lifestyle - regardless of which relationship dynamic that you prefer - there are no right answers - only what works between the two in the relationship |
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Another year in the books. :) |
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A friend sent this to me, I'm not sure who wrote it, but I liked it and thought I'd share.
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Respect the woman,
Desire and use the slut,
Cherish the little girl,
And then,
You will have the mind, the heart, and the soul of a woman,
A true gift from God. |
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One cannot go to the mountain top everyday and still appreciate it. |
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As unto the bow the cord is,
So unto the man is woman;
Though she bends him, she obeys him,
Though she draws him, yet she follows;
Useless each without the other!
The Song of Hiawatha
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow |
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An interesting quote I stumbled acrsoss today.
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"There are two kinds of strength: the strength to lead and the strength to follow; the strength to control and the strength to yield. There are two kinds of power: the power to strip another's soul bare and the power to stand naked."
Gurumayi Chidvil |
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Okay, maybe this is a bit of a rant, but I am going to share it anyway.
If you are going to post/send pictures, please ensure they are relatively recent pictures. I do not care if you're 120 or 320. I am more interested in the person. However, if you send me pictures from years ago and I meet you and see that you have significantly changed, I will feel that you have deceived me and wonder what other things you have told me that were also a deception. As we grow older, our looks will fade. It is truly what is inside that counts.
Now that I think about it, this does not only apply to pictures. Please be honest with me in general. As my profile says, I am a very trusting person. However, if I ever find that you have abused my trust through deception, I will begin to question everything you have ever said to me. |
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I came across an old song today that I have listened to countless times years ago.
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Alabama - It Works
He rattles his glass
She jumps up fast
And pours him a glass a tea
Deep in her heart she believes
That’s the way it should be
Yeah, now I’ve seen my dad get fightin’ mad
Over on little four letter word
He’ll tell you fast you don’t talk like that around her
We may not see it the way they seee it
We may not do the way they do it
But she lives her life for him
And he gladly die for her
And even in this modern age it works
Though he’s been down on his back
He still jumps out of that sack every morning at 5 am
Havin’ her home with the kids has been worth it to him
And she takes pride in being his wife
And making thier house a home
Sometimes she wishes the world would just leave them alone
We may not see it the way they seee it
We may not do the way they do it
But she lives her life for him
And he gladly die for her
And even in this modern age it works
If the good Lords willing
There will come a day
When our children will say
We may not see it the way they seee it
We may not do it the way they do it
But she lives her life for him
And he gladly die for her
And even in this modern age it works
And even in this modern age it works
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Was kind of interesting hearing it again today after all of those years. |
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a thought occurred to me today.
a major problem in any relationship is being able to resolve conflicting opinions. i feel that both sides of a couple should be willing to discuss and share those conflicting opinions or viewpoints. i am not so foolish to believe that the fact that i am dominant means that i am always right. fortunately, a d/s relationship can offer a means of resolving those conflicts, if the dominant offers the submissive the safety of being able to express her views and tries to sees her side of the issue and the submissive tries to see the dominant's side of the issue and trusts in the dominant's ability to make the final decision for them. |
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I found this quote on another profile and really liked it so I thought I'd share it here as well.
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"I am your servant.
I shall not be free.
You will protect me.
You will keep me safe.
You will guard me.
You will keep me sound.
You will protect me from every demon."
An Ancient Egyptian woman's slave contract with the priests of Saknebtyni
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Many have asked me what it is that I am seeking. "Do you want to be a Master to a slave?" "Do you want to be a Dominant to a submissive?" "Do you want to be an Owner to a pet?" "Do you want to be a DaddyDom?" Until I find the right one, I really do not know. I find all of them intriguing as both relationship dynamics and play styles. However, please do not assume that it is indecisiveness on my part. Simply put, I will be EVERYTHING she needs me to be. I will be her haven from the darkness. When she is wrapped in my arms, she will know that I am there to protect her. I hope that clarifies it some.
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