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CountessByBirth

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IF YOUR PRIMARY INTEREST IS PLAY AND SEX, MOVE ON!

I am looking for service oriented submission...

both in, AND out of the dungeon. Please do not address me as Mistress or Miss, I do not like it. Call me Maam (if you earn the right, you will eventually call me Milady). If you call me something else, I will know you are too lazy and self absorbed to read my profile. Yes, it is long. It saves me time. I am a busy Woman. Read it.

I am seeking an UNATTACHED, financially and emotionally secure man, who is intelligent, a capable submissive, and who has experience serving someone (that does NOT mean hiring a Pro, or meeting someone for play).

You are over 40 yrs old, in the Philadelphia area of NJ, with whom I can enjoy NJ and Philly with you as my chauffeur.

I am NOT interested in someone new to the lifestyle. Nor to have some stranger move to where I live.

I am NOT a pro. I do not meet for sex or play. I do not care how much you are aching to play. They all are.

Tell me why I should pick you from the hordes of guys who email. I have to care about you, and be inspired by your submission and service to FEEL like playing with you. Service alone wont do it. I want submission. I require surrender of more than your body. I want your mind and behavior appropriate to a service slave.

I am waiting.

I am interested in meeting a sub, but would prefer a slave at this time.The investment in a slave is huge, and it needs be carefully considered. Trust is built, on both sides. Subs are less work, and that is fine. But the above still applies. NO, I WILL NOT COLLAR YOU ON LINE.

I am looking for someone who is not ashamed of who they are. You should be able to be in vanilla circumstances seamlessly, and want to do normal things, in addition to the kinky stuff like play. You need to be single. You must have the time to spend and the money to do things with me. i do not expect you to pay for everything.

I have no interest in you having a vanilla girlfriend for Sat night, while I sit at home. You should be available on weekends.

My career was in highly placed positions in Fortune 100 companies. I know how to behave well, am polished, and you need to be as well. If you are only interested in thin women, I am not your gal. Im chubby, and destined to remain so. I also have some wear and tear from life.

If I do decide to call you after we communicate here, it will be coming from a private number. So if you block private calls altogether, I will not be able to reach you.

Obviously, subs are not expected to meet the same requirements set out for slaves, which appears below.

Here is the slave section (I prefer a slave at this time)

A true slave never loses his strength or dominance. Erotic slavery is not about being beaten into submission. Quite the contrary, you retain those good parts of yourself and turn them to helping you serve your Master (that would be me, in Ms the word Master is used for both sexes), and that is when the journey becomes exciting and fulfilling. Your strength and dominance become tools that help you serve better. (Slave Patrick from Becoming a Slave, by Jack Rinella)...

I want your submission.

If you please me, I may want ownership.

If you actually understand what a MASTER slave relationship is about, and have an interest in more than showing up for sex play, then we can talk.

The profile pics are of MY rope work, taken BY me, mostly in my own home, I am NOT a pro. I am the REAL DEAL. If there is still a black background on my profile, please be aware that I am aware and have tried both personally and through collarspace to have that fixed. I remain hopeful it will happen.

If you email me an X rated pic you will be blocked! I do not want to see your bits unless I ask.

After 30+ years in this lifestyle, I have little patience for games, and those who do not get it. I do this for real. I do not believe in being abusive or egoic like most. Only IF I WANT TO, will I play with you. It is not a given. You must make me WANT to....

I am NOT into strap-ons. There are pros who are happy to do that. Please keep them employed, times are tough for everyone.

MANY HAVE NO IDEA THE ZILLIONS OF EMAILS WE DOMMES GET AND DO NOT REALIZE HOW EASY IT IS TO LOSE TRACK OF THEM IN THE MOUNTAIN OF EMAIL. BE PERSISTENT. Better yet, get off your butt, give me number to call if I ask for it, get on the phone and then maybe we will meet.

If you have some idea what this Lifestyle is about and what our play truly is.. contact Me.... and tell me BRIEFLY what you think the lifestyle is about. If you genuinely seek to serve a consensual Lifestyle Owner, understand what Ds and Ms is about, and why it is necessary for the dynamic to work well, then you may contact Me. I will be asking you to provide Me with a G-rated photo if things go well.

I do have my own personal elegant dungeon. That should tell you how important this lifestyle is to Me. How important is it to you?

For those who please me well, the rewards are great. Possibly.. everything you have dreamed of. I am a small BBW, 5 feet 5 inches tall. I have fair skin, blue eyes and brown hair. I am only interested in people who are of at least average appearance, DD free, non-smokers (at least in the house), non-alcoholics (social drinking is ok), not hugely overweight and at least 5 feet 8 inches tall.

Do you have something of value to give in return? Hmmm?

And I do NOT mean money or presents.

Do you understand? If so, write to me about THAT.

You are the steward of the slave that you will become..it is YOUR responsibility to be the best you that you can make of yourself, until your Master (if it is Ms) or Mistress (if it is simply BDSM) comes to get you. .... Protect the Property.

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10/31/2009 5:02:28 AM
Some nitwit is telling subs in collarme chat that it is inappropriate for them to phone even when they have been told to do so! You should listen to what I tell you to do regarding your contact to me. NOT some cheating desperate housewife, not wanting you to accidentally call when the hubby is home!!

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MissFife
 
 Age: 29
 New york, New York