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[Added my "Friday Night Thanking My Mistress" audio to show that online has its rewards *blush*]
Strictly an Amateur Looking for Mutually Pleasurable Chats
Only interested if we can chat Cam 2 Cam--its hard enough connecting online without giving up the warmth of nonverbal communication! [and NO, I am not interested in commercial webcam websites]---we are talking about Yahoo and an inexpensive webcam. .....for online or in-person female relationships with a dominant woman, preferably fem/fem couple.
I'd Like to Take a Moment and Be Honest About My Profile and this Website
1-I am a woman. At least 80% of the Women on this Website are actually Men. So, even if we are just chatting in our flannel pajamas, we need to be able to smile and see each other.
2-The photos and audio greeting are me. I mean, thats the beauty of Cam 2 Cam--there is no hiding behind some sexy photos you found on a "Romanian Brides 4 U" website and reposted here.
3-If you are worried about your cam and "being seen on the web" then wear clothes! If you enjoy some nudity, and are afraid of that, wear a Tom Cruise or Nicole Kidman "Eyes Wide Shut" party mask. But, really, with Paris Hilton, Pam Anderson and maybe even John Edwards & his Hottie---do you think people are going to be googling your nickname online for amateur porno? You don't think one of your friends could even do a better job with some grainy film of someone who sort of looked like you and Photoshop?
4-Webcams cost like $30 at Target and Yahoo messenger is free. If you can't afford those kind of costs, please ask your parents if they would raise your allowance if you mowed the lawn.
5-Of the 20% of the Women who ARE really Women---I realize that at least 5% of you make a good living online through commercial webcam sites. I am in graduate school and can't really afford you---so PLEASE, don't ask me to follow you to www.bigbucksbabecam.com and give them a Visa Card for age ID.
OMG! For the 15% of the women [including their partners, male or female] that got this far. Can I share a thought about deficits of Cybersex?...or the "I am only interested in real time relationships"?
Around age 15, when I first got a raise in my ALLOWANCE and got a webcam, I realized two things that were not related to online sex.
First, I loved getting to know one person and, in person, getting better and better at emotions and sex with that person.
Second, far more often, even when in a great relationship, I was too tired, didnt have enough time, or couldnt match schedules with my partner---so I masturbated at home to my fantasies instead.
Sometime, around 18, I discovered that some online friends who enjoyed sharing fantasies between our bedrooms, offered a great alternative to just my own fingers, vibrator or shower spray! Using cam 2 cam I have had great relationships over the last 7 years online--that didnt take away from my realife relationships, and, in many ways helped them.
Sometime around 21, when I became both actively bisexual and actively submissive---I also realized there was a very shrunken dating pool! So, just as I got a huge sex drive, my options, even in an urban area, were limited. So, online and off, I ended up settling for what I could get so I could have a sex life. All of a sudden, I realized everything I have written here---with Cam 2 Cam and other women's profiles here, I didnt have to rush into a new relationship, I could build friendships, talk over my sexual submission and other parts of life---AND have a great transitional sex life. Even meet people from my community in a more gradual way!
I'd love to consider you a part of my circle of d/s connections. I certainly also have a high sex drive as well :-) Send me an email....
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STATING THE OBVIOUS:
1) Since webcams are inexpensive, there is no longer any realistic reason to say that you don't want to talk face to face--except that you are not who you say you are.
2)Talking face to face isn't cybersex.
3) Since the mass media film, Eyes Wide Shut, where Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise modeled party masks at bdsm parties--there is no reason to say that you can't keep your anonymity in face to face conversations. |
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 IMPORTANT—In order for me to SUBMIT on my WEBCAM, I need to see my Mistress [or Dom/fem couple] on WEBCAM. Strictly Amateur, no Pay Cam Sites! No Pro Dommes. I am a pleasure slut—I NEED to see the effect my sexual submission is having on a Mistress [or female submissive. Without that, I become too anxious to enjoy our relationship. Do not contact me without a woman and a webcam online. Thank you!
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| Age: 40 |
| Modesto,
California |
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