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First things first. I am not looking for a relationship at this time. At the moment I'm looking for research material into this lifestyle, to be used in a series of romance/bondage/erotic novels.
If you are reading this, odds are you are either searching for people near you, or you may have been contacted by me to look at the profile.
If you are shy about answering questions, or divulging personal information about yourself, please feel free to use an Anonymous Email service. HideMyAss can be found by Google, and offers a free Anonymous Email account that you can use.
Let me be clear, I am looking for information solely for different perspectives. I am male, and mostly dominant, and there are aspects of sex, and this lifestyle, that I am unable to look at in my own experiences. Such as things between a dominant and submissive woman.
This is not for sexual gratification or anything like that. I recently received an offer to possibly have my writing published electronically in order to receive payment. I am looking for this information solely on that basis, to provide different states of mind for the characters within my books.
I will not base any character on anyone who helps me with this. This is more to see how different people perceive sexual interactions, bondage, BDSM, pain, humiliation, and similar things.
That being said, this is the information I would like. You don't have to provide names or places. I'm mainly interested in the senses, feelings, emotions, and personal experiences.
--Dominant Women and Men--
From you, I am looking for what you feel as a dominant, your preferences for having a submissive male or female. How you would react to defiance from a submissive, your favorite forms of punishment, training styles, how you handle rewards or humiliation. Your preferences for sexual toys and clothing as well.
I'd also like information on the things you do sexually with your submissive. What is an absolute no with you, and what is okay. Such as some Dominant women refusing to give a blowjob. Is this seen as a form of submission by you? Or is it merely a personal preference not to do it?
--Submissive Men and Women--
What do you like about submission? How do you feel about training, humiliation, pain? What things do you like or dislike in the one you serve? What favorite things do you like to do, to announce your submissive nature to the world, and what things would you rather keep hidden?
In terms of sex as a submissive, what positions do you feel are better at submitting, and how does it feel to service your Dom/Domme.
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Any information, honestly, would be helpful. I plan to try to learn more online where I can, but sometimes books just don't convey the personal touch. That is why I'm asking for information from real people. But any help with terminology, if mine is inaccurate in any way, would also be appreciated.
Feel free to send me messages here, but if you prefer to keep things anonymous, you can use the HideMyAss website to create a hidden email just for this purpose. My email address is skyetiao//@//gmail//.com (just remove the // and you will have it.)
I'd also like to thank any who take the time to read this, and more so those who respond with helpful tips. You will be thanked should I be published, but I will keep your identity(if known) to myself.
I am hoping that a number of you will step forward to help, as I have some good ideas for a series involving this, and would like to be as realistic to the lifestyle as possible.

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magrettina
 
 Age: 27
 Brisbane, Australia