I have been in this lifestyle (as I call it) a long time now I do not see it as something you hide from friends (if they cannot understand then they are not true friends)

I find it interesting there are a lot of submissives and slaves that clam they are “true” slaves or submissives but when you start a negations before you meet they all of a sudden become very demanding which is not a truly bad thing as long as it is before agreeing to be in the relationship it is OK but once agreement has been reached well that’s up to the people involved but with me it is a TPE relationship so once agreement has been reached no more negations!

Is there a reason to set these aside? Yes two that I can think of:

1)  Health issues

2)  Family matters

And while some may argue that is to hardline well free to move on. These are my thoughts.

I found my slave till health issues hit her and it is not for public talk but our true friends know and is that not what is important? Yes it will be discussed with any prospective sub or slave after all they have a right to know what they are getting into.

There are a lot of players out there who say yea I am looking to join with a couple and form a closed relationship. They say it but then go now I will not be intimate with another female and they think we seek a third why?