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Hetero Female Slave, 45,  S. Calif (the OC), California
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Contesa - photo 1
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Hello there...a little about me. I am not, nor am I interested in any bi-sexuality, topping, daddydoms or threesomes. I prefer to play with people who are very experienced due to the level that I like to play on. I consider myself enlightened enough to know what I like..and what I don't. I don't do Skype/cam/phone calls or cock shots. Now, if after all that, your still interested in knowing me, please read on. I am a classy, educated, married (yes, he's in the lifestyle as well) and am looking to explore some of my BDSM interests publicly only with others. I have been in the lifestyle since 1994 so I pretty much know my way around and know most of the players in the game. Those are the basics folks. Here is a little bit more about moi: I enjoy playful banter, good company, innocent flirting and I try not to take life to serious. I am spiritual but don't feel like everything I do in life is a spiritual journey. I'm not into the whole giving my life up to whatever the universe brings. It's not always the *universe*, sometimes it's just life. I don't suffer for the sake of suffering and suffering is not *joyful* to me. I have low tolerance for drama queens, mouthy women, whiners and emotional vampires. I really prefer being around people with a positive attitude who are willing to work hard with a smile. Attitude and choice are what its all about. I work hard, I play hard. I'm protective to a fault, honest and if I call you my friend, then its because we actually get together and you know something about me besides just my measurements. Things I like to do: Travel to far off places (South county doesn't qualify), entertain, cook, sail, sew, tennis, good wine, good food, read, paddle board, geneology and maintain a beautiful home. Here comes my clarity to all the wonderful people who have gotten this far: I'm very comfortable with who I am and I genuinely like myself. I don't need fixing, changing or mental help. I don't need to *experience* everything. I abhor cheaters, liars, thieves, and passive aggressive behavior. I don't do ANY drugs nor take any medication to keep my behavior stable or make me feel good. I like being outside and doing physical things. I love my life and feel I have been blessed
Favorite bdsm activities 1) mind trips..........dangerous..but can be so much fun 2) canes - Yum 3) single tails - Love them..but out of practice 4) fire cupping.....and I'm pretty good at giving 5) over the knee... 6) consensual resistance play.........(NO...not rape play)
So, Enjoy the nice pics, but please be respectful.











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 Female Slave

 S. Calif (the OC) 


 5' 7"

 135 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Mascdom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Travel (Expert)



 Collars (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Going to the Opera


 Surf Boarding

 Blindfolds (Expert)



 Canes and Crops (Expert)


 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling

 Knife Play

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Stockings (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax play

 Whips (Expert)

 Historical Shows






 Intellectual Discourse





 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets



 Horseback Riding


 Wind Surfing


 Breast Play

 Fire Play

 Housework Service


 Massage (Giving)

 Orgasm Denial

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Romance Novels





 Political Activism


 Gorean Lifestyle





 Anal Play

 Corner Time

 Foot Worship (Beginner)

 Curious About:


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fisting (Beginner)

 Humiliation (Beginner)

 Masks (On Partner)


 Serving as a Maid


 Speech Restrictions



 Vacuum Stimulation


 Liberal Politics



 Bar Hopping

 Renaissance Faires

 Electrical Play




 Medical Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Goth Lifestyle



 Domestic Servants

 Theatrical Scenes

 Electronica / EDM

 Industrial Music

 Hard Limits:




 Gas Masks


 Needle Play





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Journal Entries:
10/3/2014 12:23:25 PM
Play time tonight....woohoooooooooo....

1/30/2012 4:52:20 PM

I am constantly amazed at how many people don't actually read the profile.  I now have a list of questions by people who obviously haven't taken the time to read the whole profile before asking such silliness...I'm sharing for fun. 

These fall under my....Please be respectful 

Get on your knees slut by my command 

Seriously...........can't you get a little more original. First off...don't call me a slut..because although I may be HIS slut...I'm not yours. 

I'll bet those legs could wrap all the way around me.

Thank you ...but..NO.

I reserve them for kicking.....hard.

and wrapping them around Masters waist. 

Wanna suck my big dick?(sent with a pic)

1) is that how you get all the chicks who totally dig  you?

2) aint that big.

3) Photoshop may work wonders but there is no way its going to work wonders on..That. 

I'm going to be in Calif this weekend...wanna get together?

and your any different then a mass murderer who sends me dick pics as an introduction to their wonderful self?

Seriously people....Lets use our brains. 

Random thoughts here....




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