Dominant male, so much is correct. But after all this is only a label. When we look past the stereotypes then the people involved in a relationship define what form and shape it is - and frankly, love makes us all submissive. I think we are too complex as humans to be subsumized in such crude categories, and I hope to find people here who share this view and value personality over function.
BDSM plays a prominent role in my life, and i reject seeing it only as play. Since years I have been experimenting with wood and metal, built BDSM tools and toys for me and my friends. In the short future this will also be a professional activity, materializing in shiny steel shackles, chastity belts, collars and corsetts. Sadly enough I do not have a female to test and display my work appropriately.
Aside that my life sees much sports and nature. I enjoy traveling, arts, Opera, Ballet (modern) and I like to do paragliding. Driving in a cabriolet through northern Italy or Southern France, inhaling culture and nature, enjoying simple things like good food and wine, that is something i like as much as a tekkno or free jazz party.
I find that life has so many facets to detect, that it is sad that loads of us in BDSM reduce ourselves only to one charackter trait. So, as I said above, I ignore the labels, and know precisely where my dominance ends and where my surrender begins. "True" is a word that has no place in BDSM, I think. There is no authority that has ever legitimately defined what a "true slave" or "true dom" is, all these views are personal in the end.
One reason for this attitude is my experience in slavery. For more than 6 months i have existed in a strict and rather complete enslavement, that would honour the antique understanding of what a slave is. It told me much about the beauties and horrors of BDSM, and that in the end things are how we make them, not what a word tells us - and that any man could be a complete slave to a special woman.
If you want to follow the illusions these labels create, you better move on to the next profile. If you are interested in personality and insight, then I welcome you to stay!
In any case, all the best to you all :)
Constructor
A friendly chatter here was so kind to give me insight by a poem she wrote. To return the favour, i have selected something i wrote with 15, in the positivistic mindset of puberty Here is the translation and the original:
thousand lights
sparkle joy
the city alive
yet stands
veracity in the zenith
the alight turns meek
right away
the shadows fall
lay manifest
vivid illusion
tausend lichter
funkeln freude
lebt die stadt
doch steht
die wahrheit im zenit
das lichte dunkel wird
sofort beginnt
schatten zu fallen
legt offenbar
lebendige illusion
