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A dominant is the partner in a BDSM relationship who takes the active or controlling role over that of the submissive partner. Being Dominant is not a replacement or alternative personality. The fact of the matter is that Dominance is just another part of my overall personality.
Anyone can intimidate people with gruff manners and abruptness. This is not Dominance, it is achieved by being both confident in yourself and elegant in your manner. It takes more than giving orders to inspire the desire to do as you wish.
There are those on here, I am sure that will use this space to tell you what they expect from you, the submissive. There are, also those, that will tell you what you can expect from them. I, however, have decided to tell you what you can expect me not to do.
- I will not allow a submissive under my control to be actually harmed in any way.
- I will not allow a submissive's rights to be violated.
- I will not play with and discard a submissive just for amusement.
- I will not interfere with a submissive who has declared herself to be owned.
- I will not knowingly disregard, what I believe are, the duties and responsibilities of a Dominant.
We have free choice but we also need to ensure those choices are both known and understood by the other so that both are aware of what the other's expectations are.
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