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And, as suggested by a friend,I have added a few things to my likes andor dislikes in personal and in interests.
Hopefully this will give some better direction and understanding with who I am. Please realize, that these are not etched in stone, rather more indicative of proclivities I have enjoyed in the past, or perhaps not enjoyed.....for the restraints shall be in the mind, not with the necessity of use of more tangible means.My experience is from well over 20 years of understanding the needs of women, particularly those that have such unique needs within their lives. I will not indulge in the commonalities that have created colloquialistic phrases, nor will I act the part of someone whom I am not.I am rather upscale in actions, education, manners. I am not into joining groups or associationsto validate who I am. I am simply what I state and that is in the most basic of terms. I am considered Old Guard by many, but not in the way of the original postings some 20plus years ago of the gay or transgendered community in San Francisco known as the Society of Janus to which I am not a member of course. So I am not truely Old Guard, rather enjoy the protocols that it kindly has shared with those they felt true. It is more in my actionsand comprehension. Andthis self acclaimed deion of myself is in no way to be considered gay bashing or such, for I have had many gay acquaintancesin my life.I am very sensuous, not cruel nor am I impatient. I understand a womans needs and body as I do the back of my hand, and I do not care to take anyone to a place she does not wish to go.I also have filled out very few of my skills or bdsm proclivities. The reasons are mine, but are willingly shared if you must know, and again, I dont know why it is important on friendship, the first step in any relationship. I have however put down some definite likes and dislikes of a personal nature....please do not assume anything other than what I have entered. Also, many of my personal likes are still based upon the limits of another, and if they are a must in a more than friendly relationship, I will share my feelings about a particular subject.
Personally, I am rather laid back, romantic and caring. I enjoy laughing and making the one I am with to laugh as well. It seems as it has been an eternity since I found the right person to love, but perhaps it will come again one day.It is in my best interests to not post a picture, howeverI will gladly share a picture or more information on request...with the prerequisite that I have felt comfortable in our conversations and feel there is a need to do so. But for those that need a reassurance of sorts.....I am considered handsome by many but do not carry a 6 pack on my stomach, yet I am far from being considered one with a terrible body or posture for a man of my stature. Thus if looks are important, and to me it makes no sense in friendship, I hope this sates your inquistive nature.
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