Looks matter, creativity does too. Would like to find someone who could be both playful and intense. Not looking for someone obsessed with the s&m life, dressed head to toe in latex, or into intense pain or extreme scenes. Dominant when it comes to sex, but looking for a woman who's turned on by submission in bed, but independent minded in life--not at all into the "lifestyle slave-master" thing.
Don't want to put a photo on the site (okay if you feel the same way) but obviously have pics and can send them I'm genuinely attractive. I get the feeling that a lot of men into this scene are not.
Really only interested in women in NY. Seems like that should be enough, I don't think I need to search other states to find smart, hot, playful edgy women, do I?
