"How singular is the thing called pleasure, and how curiously related to pain, which might be thought to be the opposite of it; For they are never present to a man at the same instant, and yet he who pursues either is generally compelled to take the other." –Plato
I divide my time between homes in Northern Virginia and Arezzo, Italy.
I am looking for a LTR with a submissive woman who is willing to take some risks in the adventure of being alive. A woman who is conversationally erotic and passionately intelligent: a woman who is seduced by the undiscovered. Someone who can communicate how they feel and what they want without reservation or barriers.
Dominance isn’t shouts and demands, it’s a hand at the small of your back and whispered words that make your head spin. I am not into being abusive and I don’t have a need to micro-manage my submissive. I am a gentleman with a very firm hand. You will be cared for and pampered when good, disciplined when needed, and punished only when deserved. To me the mental aspect of this is just as important as the physical, and I will ravish both your mind and your body. I seek respect, obedience without hesitation when I make a decision, and the intense yet compliant love of one who is owned by me in every conceivable way.
I believe that successful D/s relationships develop and are sustained through mutual respect. My life is based on integrity, character, honesty, fairness, compassion and consistency in all of the things that I do. I want a woman to be inspired to submit to me because I have earned her respect and admiration, and because I have ignited her desire and imagination. To me submission is not about humiliation, or fear, or weakness. It is about being the kind of man who engenders complete trust and respect, and who creates a safe and loving environment that allows a woman to free her spirit and relinquish control, and be free to fully express her love and devotion. Being a good girl isn’t about how you give your body. It’s about how you give your heart.
