I am Monogamous; naturally dominant; slightly sadistic; openly romantic; very clean-cut; educated; accomplished; Older/ Mature white pure Alpha Male, seeks a long-term relationship that intertwines the natural course of BDSM with the vanilla world. I believe that the show of affection is a very important ingredient within any relationship – especially a relationship of this intensity. I’m looking for the proverbial progression of friends / best friends / lovers leading to long-term.

This lifestyle is simply an extension of who I am: It does not define me.

Within the lifestyle, I value protocol; I have very realistic Standing Orders that I expect to be obeyed without waiver, and I require absolute honesty and commitment. The lifestyle has been in my blood now for too many years, so there’s no turning back.

I very much enjoy living and experiencing my life in the “now”. I am a very real-life “reformed bad boy”. Age, experience, and maybe a bit of wisdom have calmed me down considerably. Within the lifestyle I hold my own values and I tend to lean towards Old School standards and expectations. I am quite comfortable in my own skin, so I know what pleases me and will not compromise - yet tend to reward accordingly.

I believe in the importance of a Lifestyle / Vanilla mix and I have many interests in both arenas. Those interests include attending the Symphony, visiting Art Shows, attending the Theatre. I enjoy the ocean, beach and love travelling; I enjoy spending quiet time with someone special, sharing a bottle of wine and enjoying the company and closeness that seems so elusive in this day and age (and lifestyle). Other things I enjoy doing are eclectic. Those include skiing, hiking, cycling, photography, and sailing to mention a few. 

I seek a one-on-one committed relationship. No poly, no swinging, no sharing with other dominants. I'm seeking my muse; my lover; my best friend. It’s time now to grow with someone who shares my values. I hope to meet someone who values education, likes to get out and live life, someone who loves to be around animals, and wants a very real and drama-free listyle based at the core.

In terms of the Lifestyle, I like high protocol, and rituals from my sub/slave as a requirement of service. A well trained sub/slave, with proper protocol and rituals, is such a thing of beauty and grace. Servitude is achieved through physical and mental conditioning, mind control/Internal Enslavement (IE). I will rebuild you into my perfect vision. Reconditioned through proven techniques,  you will know the contentment of serving and surrender. If you truly seek to serve, none of this (bedroom kink/spank me" stuff that's internet driven) then we should speak. This is considered extreme by the "players", but normal to those wanting a true D/s dynamic......

I know that I have written a novela, but it's important to be clear in what is expected.  So if you have gotten this far, in your reply state the word, "Omni"

I look forward to hearing from you