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CommanderFemShep

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I am into body worship, face sitting, strap-on play, male chastity, orgasm denial, light bondage (which may turn into heavy bondage at a later date), biting, scratching, licking, yanking, squeezing, possibly spanking, and possibly some humiliation. If you are not willing to spend hours worshiping a woman's body (feet, vagina, ass, hands, neck, chest, thigh, etc. etc. etc.) with your hands and tongue, then don't waste either of our time. If you are not willing to have your dick frequently ignored unless a woman feels like using it, then don't waste either of our time. Also, I'm Dominant both in and out of the bedroom, so keep that in mind. I don't mind having a "normal" relationship when we're outside, and I'm always willing to hear my slave's thoughts and to spend time relaxing in a non-D/s way, but don't expect me to do anything I don't want to do.
I am looking for a man to be my slave. He should want to treat a woman like the Queen that She is. He should truly desire to take care of Her every whim. Her pleasure should be his main goal, whether it be as a houseboy, pet, sex slave, foot stool, or whatever else She desires. The fact of the matter is that normal relationships haven't been working for me. Some might say my expectations are too high, or that I'm too demanding, or that I'm too hard to please.

To them, I say: What's wrong with knowing what I want? Every time I have lowered my standards, I wind up disappointed. Why even bother trying to settle for less? Instead of settling and being unhappy, I decided to try embracing my demanding nature instead. So, I am a new, first-time Domina (Mistress, Ma'am, Femdom, Domme, Dominant, Dom, etc. etc. etc.) looking for a submissive (sub, slave, etc. etc. etc.) male who wants to take the time and energy required to please me. And I truly mean both in and out of the bedroom.

I'm looking for a guy who is reasonably attractive, reasonably fit, and reasonably tall. You must be submissive in the sense that you want to please the person you're with in any way you can. I'm a little bit of a sadist. I like playful scratching and biting. I top from the bottom. I'm not into piss, shit, vomit, or extreme pain. I am just very hard to please because what I want changes often. I enjoy being in charge. I enjoy getting what I want. If you think you can keep up with my desires, and if that sounds like something you genuinely want to do, then you might be who I'm looking for.
Me: 29, 4'11", curvy BBW (about 240 lbs., a size 20/22), geeky fangirl. D&D free. No kids. No car. Pros- Honest, open, loyal, happy, funny, sarcastic, loving, smart, charismatic, enjoys having fun, friendly, passionate, loud, crazy laugh, touchy feely, exuberant, thoughtful. Cons- High expectations, demanding, not easy to please, fickle, clumsy, forgetful, selfish.

You: 20-40, 5'3" or taller, single, preferably white but will consider others (latino, asian, black, etc.), an attractive body, non-smoker, non-drinker, doesn't do drugs, male, no kids, has plenty of money to take care of my many wants and needs, owns a car, has your own place to host, is capable of replying to texts and e-mails relatively quickly even when I don't do the same, enjoys bottoming from the top, truthfully enjoys doing anything and everything you can to please your significant other, really wants a woman to treat like a Princess or a Queen. It would be an added bonus if you consider yourself at least somewhat of a geek or a fanboy. If you do, I want to know what your geeky fanboy hobbies are.

I have more I could tell you, but I think this is enough to start off with. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, let's talk.
I do like the idea of being called Domina. Will it stick? Who knows. I do know that this is new for me, and that this is potentially scary for you, and so if we do seem to get along well over e-mail, we will be meeting in public first, probably at a Starbucks. That way we can get to know each other more and see if we click. I'm looking for a guy who wants to take care of me and all of my desires, and is honestly happy doing so. In return, I am a loving, loyal, honest, and thoughtful partner. If that kind of relationship is what you crave, let me know.

Hope to hear from you soon! :) P. S. I'm also looking for safe play partners in the meantime. :)
11/8/2013 12:00:35 AM
You know what I'm sick of? Dominant men contacting me and then being surprised that I'm Dominant. Can they not READ?! It says very clearly on my profile that I want a slave! Your pathetic dick is not going to change my mind. Stop bothering me.
10/23/2013 6:54:58 PM
I like being called Domina. And I like being called Miss. But a guy just asked if he could call me Khaleesi, and my answer is FUCK YES!!!!! XDDD <3 <3
10/20/2013 11:36:20 PM
I just had a guy on a different (more vanilla?) website tell me that Queens don't show their boobs and underwear online. He heavily implied that only sluts do so. First of all, Queens do whatever the fuck they want to do, and they don't have to explain anything to anyone. Second, I think I am extremely sexy, and if I want to show off pictures of myself, I'm going to. Third, how many play partners you have or how often you play has no relevance on if you're a real Queen or not. I actually tried being civil, understanding, and friendly to this ignorant fuck. Silly me. Next time I feel pity at someone's closed-mindedness, I may just let them stay idiotic rather than waste my time on trying to nicely teach them something.
10/19/2013 9:40:39 PM
My sister and I are going to be in an awful living situation in a couple days. I wish we had a room to stay in until a new place comes through! And I can only pray that whatever new place we find will have private bedrooms for each of us. I want to be able to host. XD;
10/19/2013 9:15:22 AM

Listen, guys. If you want to eat your own cum, just fucking eat it. You don't need to try to get me to command you to do it. You wanting to eat your cum is not helping me out in any way. Not that I'm against it, mind you, but for the love of God, if you message me from somewhere far away with, "I'll even eat my cum for you", just know that I know that it's not an act of submission. You just want to do it. You need to deal with that in your own way, but stop pestering me about it. I really don't give a shit the vast majority of the time. Lol. >.<;

10/19/2013 8:52:25 AM

Okay, let me just say something right off the bat here. I'm new to this myself. I've only been doing it a few weeks. I'm not sure what I like yet or what I'm looking for. I am not interested in helping other newbies discover their kinks. Yes, I want whoever I'm with to like it and enjoy worshiping me, but I really am really not sure exactly what I'm looking for yet, so if you have specific ideas or specific things that you want me to do, that probably is not going to happen, since I am focusing on my needs and desires. I have no problem playing with newbies or experienced subs or anything in between, but if you have very specific kinks that you need or want attended to, I just don't think that I can do that right now. I need to find out what I like first. :)

10/17/2013 7:49:22 PM
Why is it so hard to get someone to drop everything and come over at a moment's notice to eat me out? I mean, really. You would think there would be a line out the door or something. ;P
10/8/2013 9:18:06 PM
Why do vanilla guys always think that assplay with a woman is "gay"? Gay, bi, demi, pan, and other non-hetero men are not the only creatures in the universe who have asses. And when a man and a woman have sex, any kind of sex in any capacity, it is heterosexual sex. Not homosexual sex. This stupid idea that so many straight cis men have just bothers me so much. So, I decided to vent here. XD
lyn1987
 
 Age: 28
 Wash. Metro Area, Washington D.C.