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CommanderCane

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I'm a New York-based software wrangler, sound engineer, multimedia hacker, musician, part-time teacher, full-time troublemaker. Oh yeah, and a rather kinky blighter. You're smart as a whip, opinionated, grounded, yet very much in love with ideas and the life of the mind. Not to mention kinky as all hell. As a Dom, I've been told I'm very strict and imaginatively cruel (or cruelly imaginative), but I'm also big on affection and closeness (yeah, I'm a cuddler. Got a problem with that?) and aftercare is kind of a religion with me. Been "in the life" for about seven years now. Got my heart broken badly a few times, but that hasn't damped my optimism; quite the opposite, in fact. I'd say what makes me a good Dominant is that (a) I listen extremely well, and (b) I'm a complete safety freak. My last sub said that I was the first Dom with whom she could relax and not worry about self-preservation while we were playing -- and we played quite hard sometimes. I'm proud of that. So. Let's sip bourbon and talk until the small hours. Let's watch the Discovery Channel together. Let's swap life histories and war stories. Let's explore the city. Let's gaze into the abyss -- and take a picture. Let's weave a course of grace and havoc...
kaelinskunt
 
 Age: 23
 Berkeley, California