Life today is full of countless choices which, on the surface, seem to provide you with more freedom than you could ever have hoped for. Why is it then that instead of feeling free you feel unhappy, trapped, confused and stressed?

With each new choice comes the need to make a decision, a decision you never asked for, never wanted and so, as they begin to mount, you start to see that freedom is just an illusion. Instead of the contented calm it should bring you, it carries an ever mounting burden of stress and worry, which at times feels incredibly overwhelming.

True freedom comes when those burdens are lifted from you and you can finally let go, completely and utterly, and put yourself entirely into the hands of another. Someone who will not expect you to make decisions and choices, and instead simply tells you what to do, because he knows best. Someone who will lift that weight from your shoulders and provide you with the safety, security, comfort and happiness that comes from being owned and controlled.

You don't want to be the leader, you never have. You know your pleasure, satisfaction and fulfillment comes from serving the needs of another, in every possible way. You don't wish to stand alongside but behind and beneath. You don't need a voice, only to hear and follow mine. Knowing that your submission and obedience makes me happy is what drives you to become a better and better slave. Knowing that I will nurture, value, support and encourage you when you do well is what motivates you. And knowing that I will scold, correct and punish you when you disobey, defy or disappoint me, is what gives you the boundaries and discipline you need in order to feel safe, secure, protected and cared for.

You long to be the object, the plaything, the possession of a happy, caring, dominant man. One who is confident, intelligent, strong and capable, and yet calm, fair and open minded. One who can lead, guide and teach you how to enjoy being your true self, whilst knowing how to keep you in line and in your place.

I'm an intelligent, good looking, successful, experienced dominant man, and am looking for such a girl. One who is loyal, playful, good natured, kind and easy going, who simply wants the opportunity to please and serve, and be valued and appreciated for it. Although I can be strict when I need to be, I mostly like to laugh, enjoy life and have fun, and so hopefully you do too.

You don't need to have had experience of this kind of relationship as I've had a number of them, all of which have been fun, exciting and deeply fulfilling, and so know that experience makes little difference, only that you know that this is something that would suit you and make you happy. As such, you'll know from your hidden fantasies, desires, and thoughts, whether you're the kind of girl I'm looking for. You'll know that those cravings you have aren't just going to go away and will only get stronger. If so, and you're old enough to know what you want, and genuine in wanting to learn more and seeing where it might lead, then please do get in touch and tell me about yourself, and I'll happily tell you more.