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I'm a socially active and responsible guy living in NC. I am looking for someone from my area but I am open to making new acquaintances and friends with people all over. If you live far away but we happen to connect you will need to relocate to come live with me, but what a beautiful place to live. It's a place that is easy to love and difficult to leave. Publicly you'll be my "significant other", lover, or whatever. Privately you'll be my slave.

Once we get to know each other I'll gladly accommodate with a picture. I'm a decent looking guy, but with community obligations, its not possible to put a picture online. I have several passions that you'll learn about, but these too will need to be related privately. I prefer to keep the borders between my public and private lives sharply defined.

Clearing away the things that can be negotiated, here's what I’m looking for:

You must be undeniably submissive. Try as I might, I've never been able to grasp that strange oxymoron of a 'feisty' submissive. It's just plain disrespect not to carefully obey and you'll be punished. It's a betrayal of the submissive ideal and my responsibility to correct. Ideally, you have a need to be owned and controlled.

You've read this so far because, or perhaps in spite of, the fact that I'm a sadist. You may be turned on by the thought of a sadist doing what he does best to you. Perhaps you've discovered the connection that seems to exist in the female psyche between pain and eroticism. Perhaps pain is something you wish to avoid, but your submission drives you to endure it out of respect and a need to be of service to this particular man. Either way works for this guy if you are able to fully accept my sadism.

I’d like to laugh more often. Bring your sense of humor with you. It's acceptable to smirk at my wry jokes.

I don't expect instant gratification in meeting a chic who clicks. Getting to know each other will take time. Then you'll become my.... er.. "picked" chick. No I didn't say "plucked" chick. KFC anyone?

One other thing.... Love pussies, please. Now you can take that anyway you'd like, but I live with one. Here's a direct quote from her: "Meow"





What differentiates a free woman from a slave is NOT the lack of a collar or a brand, it is a certain attitude and a set of behaviors. I seek a serious submissive.
Here are some examples of questions you should be able to answer:

What experiences or fantasies have you had that made you feel that you want a session with me?

Specifically, do you like the idea of bondage? What about being spanked, paddled or flogged? Do you think about other types of intense physical stimulus (otherwise known as pain)?

If you are an experienced submissive, be prepared to answer questions about what you did and did not like about your previous experiences.

The second point is courtesy and good manners.

When you first contact me, you will be seeking information and answering questions as one equal to another. It is unnecessary, and in fact, presumptuous, to address me as "Master" or "Sir" and speak to me as if you were already my slave.

Once an agreement has been reached and you have consented to submit to my power over you, then it is appropriate for you to address me as Master.

Whether you are a novice or not, it is natural to be a bit nervous with a new person about such intimate things, but flippancy and attitude are not acceptable.

In addition, once the session is underway, you should strive to be as submissive and respectful as you can. Some slaves think that consciously bad behavior, such as being rude or disobedient will get them more attention or a more severe punishment. Novices may think that rebellious behavior is cute and amusing. Neither of these behaviors are acceptable. Respectful requests will be considered, but bad behaviors will put an end to your conversation. Be prepared to submit, or look elsewhere.
MistressKay2u
 
 Age: 25
 DAVAO, Philippines