First off: NO MEN!!!

I/we are a dominant couple. I am dominant in all things. He is more of a switch/alpha sub. He is very dominant in every day, "normal" activities but behind closed doors he submits to me and to those I ask him to.

We are a very current/cosmopolitan, cultured and educated couple. I freelance, and he is an artist, writer and filmmaker. We both have kids, and our lives are extremely private and very vanilla looking to the outside. I/we intend to keep it that way. With that said, I/we are looking to start a real inner BDSM/poly lifestyle that we would like to make you a part of.

I/we are looking for a number of things which I will expound upon further. I would like to organize My/our search by categorizing the paragraphs. Our main search is for one, possibly two female slaves/submissives...maybe switches. I/we are also looking for dominant women primarily as friends. We both are very physically attractive people and have worked in the past as models. Those we are looking for need not have been models, but being physically attractive/height-weight proportionate is important. We are not into those who are overly overweight.

If you believe you are a FEMALE submissive, make sure you read this entire profile. All of it. When contacting Me, I will know whether you've read it or not, and how closely you pay attention. If you are a dominant, I/we invite you to read what we're up for and to contact us!

DOMINANT WOMEN:

Hi there! As I mentioned above, I/we are looking for dominant women in our area (outside our area too...E-mail is a great thing! LOL) to become friends with. I am also looking for someone that might be considered a "couger" in the lifestyle who doesn't mind mentoring me. I would love to talk, swap ideas and have friends to go and do things with both in and out of the lifestyle.(If you email me, we can talk about all the non-bdsm things we like to do!)

Just a small fantasy of mine: I would love to have parties either hosted by myself, or that I attend where he is restrained and I allow the women present to touch, play with, and fuck him. I'd love to watch my boy gangbanged!

Also feel free to read our requirements for slave girls. Maybe you know those you'd like to recommend to us, or introduce us to? (or introduce to us once you know us better! :) )

SLAVE GIRLS:

I/we are looking for girls that are very frilly. You should have been a cheerleader, gymnast or model or combination thereof. If you were never any of those things, you should look like you could have been. You should be able to be arm candy.

We are looking for someone who will eventually be a PART of our family. You MUST be willing to relocate to Us, and be willing to move when and if we move. We both hold more than one citizenship and at times we travel back and forth with homes both here in the USA and in other places. You must be either straight or bisexual. If you are straight, I will "turn you bi" LOL. If you are "bi" you have to really be bi and not a closet lesbian. My husband is going to fuck you, and I want you to be able to love every minute of it. We intend for you to be a lover to us both. We are therefore being very cautious and slow in our choice. You must therefore have patience and diligence. We are worth it. We want to make sure you are too.

As mentioned above, we have kids and lead a very "normal", vanilla looking lifestyle to friends and family and it is of the utmost import to keep up that appearance. Be sure that slipping up in that area through a careless comment or action will earn you a bigger punishment than anything else we could think of.

What do we want then, and what can you expect?

We want someone that will end up loving us, and we them. You will NOT be a second "wife". You will be first and foremost, a Concubine...and a loved prize, a toy, a real slave. At no time will you EVER be equal. You will learn proper respect and deference to us both.(If there is ever an argument between my husband and myself, YOU will stay out of it completely. If there is ever a disagreement between either of us and you...Our word is final. Period. No arguments. And, we are not interested in "brats".)

This will be something we expect to be 24/7, and LIFELONG. We cannot stress that enough. Yet, you will also be a friend...and treated with respect in return. We both have interests outside of BDSM and we are sure you do too. I am looking for someone who will be a best friend...one that I can dominate, fuck and play with. He is looking for the same thing. (And in fact...as a lifelong relationship develops, I am actually someone who believes kids are a blessing...and I don't mind the thought of my husband having children with you. It's not necessary, but I am willing to discuss it if it's something you might like.) We really want you to develop REAL love for us both. We want you to fall in love with us, and us with you.

When he is gone, I want to be able to go and do things with you and be as lovers. I will have rights to your body and you will like it. When I am gone doing something with some other friend, and he is home...you will be his friend and lover. If you want to fuck him, ask him to make love to you. It'll be alright with me. :)

As said above, we may want more than one girl. If this is the case, one of you will be the following: You will not work outside the house. If you have a career that you can work from home, great. But honestly from our perspective you need not be overly educated. (It's fine if you are.) One of your largest duties will be as a housekeeper. (Be sure that we are into BDSM rituals and keeping notes and keeping score...and we will incorporate these things in a subtle manner throughout your entire life and daily routine.)

The other girl will in all things be the same as the first, only her "job" within the family will be as a nanny to the children. IF we choose to only have One girl, she will be both housekeeper and nanny.

Your room eventually will be connected to ours and locks will be on all doors to ensure kids won't interrupt us in the middle of the night! You will often be in our bed with us. (Or one of us will be in yours with you. :) ) If we have two girls, you will share a room...and if disagreements or fights arise at any time...punishment will be up to Us. (Ideally, you will be friends. Perhaps you have a friend you would like to introduce us to that would be compatible with you in this way?)

In terms of BDMS activities...you should be a nasty girl...someone that will be, behind closed doors, turned into the biggest cum slut you've ever been. (With us alone. We do not intend to share you with those outside our home.) We are not hugely into sadism, and so will not be causing you lasting injuries. You "may" get spanked or lightly whipped...but nothing that is going to seriously damage you.

You should also be either a Christian, a Jew, or someone spiritual that leans toward being open concerning the God of the Bible. We both believe in God and neither of us have ever found anything that prohibits this lifestyle. We both want to include God in our lives and we do.

You can expect a longer E-mail and phone period where we talk and get to know you. this will be followed by a smaller trial period with us which we can negotiate...but if we decide to keep you...that's IT. You will then immediately move to be with us, your ear or some other body part we decide upon will be pierced as a sign of your LIFELONG choice to be in servitude to Us. You must be willing to 100% give up your old life and begin anew. we don't expect things to happen overnight, but we do expect your love and submission to us to grow. Yes. It will require real trust. That's why we are going slow.

You will be controlled in all things, from what you eat (How does his cum as dressing on a salad sound? Hmmmm...hee hee hee), to what you wear when kids or guests etc. are present. When no one but us is home, you will not be allowed clothing.

We make love to one another pretty much every day. You will be included. We say "make love" rather than fuck because this is one way we show love. We will expect you to do the same. (You can be sure you will get "fucked" too. Rough sex can be fun...and I like watching. So having him fuck the shit out of YOU will be tasty! I also might do the same to you with a strap-on while you suck him off or alone etc.) There are a lot of rules that I will not go into here, but suffice to say that we do expect REAL LOVE to develop between us all, and we will encourage you to be open and we WANT you to want us sexually. However, you must always ask, and indeed we may require that you beg. He never says "no" to me...you will never say "no" to Us. At any time of day or night, if we initiate it...you WILL comply. (And I am sure you will also enjoy. :) )If you initiate, then again...we'll have rules concerning that.

Finally, He is submissive to me, but he will be dominant to you and you WILL submit to him. With that said, I am thinking of making it so that two weeks out of the month, I will switch you up in that, I "may" use you in my domination of him. I may watch and have you fuck him, telling you what to do and how. I "may" have you tie him down and dominate him with me from time to time, and you "may" fuck him up the ass with a strap-on if I command it. You have to be comfortable with this. You may either enjoy dominating him from time to time (which is My preference), or you can do it as part of your submission to Me.

During the other two weeks, you will return to being submissive to us both. (And you must understand...out of the bedroom, you will at ALL times be submissive to us both.)

I have not decided on that completely yet though.

If you would like to initiate a dialogue with us, then I would encourage you to contact us. If you do, BE SURE to write a real E-mail. I will not even contemplate a profile or e-mail from you that says "hey, what's up?" Be real. We are.

Include several face pictures of yourself. Include at least two full body shots. You do not need to be nude in your photos although you may if you wish. That "may" be required in future correspondence. Be ready for that. Make sure to spell check. Copy the E-mail you send to Us here on Collarme, and send it as well to: shiransandrusi@gmail.com

I/We look forward to hearing from you!