Let’s get right to it. I’m a Dom in Northern Virginia looking for a female sub over 30. But not just any “submissive,” I’m not looking for a doormat or somebody who can’t take care of themselves. She needs to be reliant and enjoys “vanilla” things like going out to eat, hiking, or just random “whatevers.” She needs to enjoy doing the vanilla things in life with me, just with a twist. Maybe it’s walking through a mall with a remote control vibrator. Maybe it’s whispering something in your ear to make your heart skip a beat.

I’m a professional, educated man with his life together. Nobody would know about this side of me, and that’s intentional. You should be feminine, stable, and secure. Also, you shouldn’t be into blood or scat or anything like that. Because neither am I. I just don’t get it.

And finally, you MUST be single. No married. No separated. No “it’s complicated.” 100% single. I plan on devoting 100% of me and I expect the same in return. I probably work too much, but I am at that point where I want to settle down, but that doesn’t mean settle.

I’m not concerned about your body. If you have a little not-extra not on you it’s ok. It’s all about the inside of the person. If that is beautiful it just naturally seeps out.