A little about myself. I am 29 and have been interested in this lifestyle for quite some time now. However, it’s been difficult finding a Mistress who is a good match. I have tried several sites and just now started to explore fetlife more and hope to find an experienced dom to guide and help me to tap into my submissive side. I’m typically more dominant in my every day life, but the submissive/slave role has always enticed me very much. I have always loved a strong, independent woman, and the idea of being degraded and forced to serve a Mistress would be both an honor and privilege. I have pics and will gladly share with any Mistress or dom in which I feel a genuine connection. I have come across too many fakes in the past, and I do wish to remain discreet, so I do hope you understand. I have had some experience online and have spoken to other doms to better understand the lifestyle. Other than that my experience has been limited to past relationships in which we had kinky fun in the bedroom. Anal play, light bondage, tease and denial, and other acts along those lines are all I have been able to explore in real time. I would love to find a local Mistress, but I am also seeking an online relationship, in which I can explore my submissive side, and better understand the wants and needs of a dom. I hope to build a genuine connection, one where we can engage in vanilla conversation as well. I am very eager to unleash my submissive side, and hope to find a Mistress who can help guide me there. If online play is not something that you partake in, I am also open to meeting new friends, listening to past experiences, or chatting about how I can better serve in the future. I have never felt comfortable going to group events, because although I have been interested in this lifestyle for about 10 years, there is so much I have yet to experience. I am hoping to find a Mistress to break me out of my shell, and allow me to fully embrace my submissive side. I have always preferred a more intimate, one on one play, rather than group events. However, I would like to open myself up more and take that next step, so hopefully by understanding how to better serve, I will in turn be more comfortable fully exploring the bdsm community. As for what draws me to the idea of submission, I have always loved the psychological aspect of a dom and sub relationship. That fear and thrill of not knowing what to expect. That feeling of helplessness, making every effort to please your divine mistress. Being restrained, blindfolded, never knowing what to expect, always being on edge, just waiting for the opportunity to obey and please your Mistress. It’s very exciting, and makes me weak at the knees by just the thought. Some other kinks that interest me are orgasm control, tease and denial, bondage, cbt, anal play, degradation, obedience training, latex outfits, and many more. I have a high pain tolerance, but I am not interested in anything that would cause permanent or serious injury. As for other limits, I am not financial domination, forced bi, and nothing regarding bodily fluids. If I forgot anything I will be happy to discuss things further. I am a quick learner and love to please. I look forward to having the opportunity to speak with any Mistress who may grace me with their presence. I hope to finally let go and let my submissive side take over. Please don’t hesitate to ask me any questions regarding anything about past experiences, further kinks, or even anything vanilla you would like to know!