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New to BDSM as a lifestyle although, by further investigation, I have discovered that through my normal sexual behaviors I have already done many things that would be considered such. As I started to complete this profile I was automatically drawn to create it as a Dominant. It was only through further retrospect that I decided I could be somewhat of a Switch. Maybe you could help me understand this role a little better? In life; I attend college and currently carry a 4.0, I work, I raise a family and I have a wife (hence the profile being for a couple), I am not wealthy by any means (yet, lol) but I am in the first stages of forming a Pharmaceutical Corp. to test and market a new bacterial treatment that I invented. Now in saying this I have said more than I wish too, but you can get the point. I am a hard worker, hard thinker (on blue moons can be a hard partier, lol) and a bit of a perfectionist. In everyday life I must know I have the control. However, the more I thought about it the more it occurred to me that when it comes to sex I don’t always even like having the control. For example, I love to be pursued by a woman, I like a woman that knows when to make the first move, and my favorite position (at least during the first part of sex) is the woman riding me (me on my back underneath). I love to know that the woman has been pleasured before I take it into my hands to give myself pleasure with her. Though this is the normal way of things, over time I become more and more Dominate, exploring things such as me giving knife play, erotic asphyxiation (throat play), spankings, candle play, etc. Now, back to my question, is this a Switch or the usual transition into Domination?
What I would like to find.
~Although I love all kinds of things and change can be good, I gravitate towards 1950’s household as time goes by
~I am looking for a respectful woman (switch, slave, sub or pet) to bring into a poly household. The right secondary household situation could perhaps be worked out as well, if needed (not preferred).
~I am not into Cuckolding. I hate sharing my women with other men (women ok, men no). This is the fastest way to loose me and or my interest.
~I am and strive to be a professional, in life and in my career path, and expect to be treated as one. This is the main reason I do not just post pictures of myself publicly as it could come back to bite me later. If I become interested in you then yes I will share photos.
**This is something that I have always thought of as important. Remember the story of the mother hen who grew her own wheat and baked her own bread? Well, in the story she asks her friends for help at each stage of the process, to which they reply, “I have something else to do today.” By the end of the story the mother hen has completed her task and the smell of fresh baked bread goes out over the countryside. All her friends come to eat the delicious bread. To this she refuses them and only shares with her chicks that helped her to make the bread. **In life I am making my “bread” now. I know that when the money comes, in a few years, people will scramble to make me happy. I hope to find someone before then so that I know they are with me for me. Will you help me make my proverbial “bread”?
Besides this the world is open with all its wonderful possibilities. I look at life as an adventure and I love it! If you have read this far then I look forward to hearing from you. Best of luck!
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Alright! Hey to all my friends on here guess what?
I GOT THE 
