Collarspace.com

I'm looking for the mental aspect of this lifestyle first before the sexual. I am looking for a deeper understanding of the Dom/sub/slave relationships from both perspectives from a purely nonsexual control aspect. Granted the sexual aspect is intriguing, but the mental end is much more appealing to me at this point in time. Anyone can just have kinky sex, it take's real control to meld the mind into what you want and to mentally Dominates someone, now that is ownership.
I do not want some one messaging me once and looking only for sex, you wont get it at all if that's the case. That's not what I'm here for, just the cheap thrills. I'm here to learn and to learn my place in this world. Find out where I fit in. I want to learn the mental FIRST. But I must ask that if all your looking for is online dating or a one night stand, or purely sex; you can leave my page and not read on further. Please don't be one of the many fakes I run into so often, take some real initiative and show me your here for more then dating because this isn't about dating now is it? It's about a real LIFESTYLE.
crazysara
 
 Age: 29
 Uk, United Kingdom