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| After much time away I'm back.
Did some soul searching and all that with the help of my dashing partner in crime and have found a whole new person inside of me just waiting to explore.
Some things to know BEFORE you message me:
- I am a real 18 year old woman, believe it or not.
- I am in a relationship that involves aspects of the BDSM lifestyle, but it is not only that.
- I'm not interested in going behind his back, so look somewhere else if you're after that.
- I would consider meeting up with people, on my terms of course.
- I'll happily talk to anybody who can keep an interesting conversation going, and will discuss more or less anything, but will not be flirtatious.
- I'm a nice person and not *just* here to explore the scene, I like casual conversation too.
- I like people who have at least some intelligence, generally it keeps the topics of conversation varied and interesting.
-First impressions are everything, so put your best foot forward.
Feel free to drop me a message by all means, I'd love to get to know you. :)
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Subdrop is beginning to get in the way of my life and I'm slowly becoming more resentful towards my Dom. Anyone care to offer some advice or even just a conversation on the subject?
This is a relatively new problem. I have no idea why its getting worse or what's triggering it.
This is very confusing. |
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Just uploaded a very poor quality photo of myself from an angle that's not the most flattering but one of the few that shows how big my ass is. Yes, I'm a little on the chubby side, but its still quite out of proportion with my tummy, don't you think?
I hadn't actually realised how big it is. Kim Kardashian, eat your heart out;)
I'll upload another full bomdy photo from the front, its a little more flattering. |
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Just uploaded a very poor quality photo of myself from an angle that's not the most flattering but one of the few that shows how big my ass is. Yes, I'm a little on the chubby side, but its still quite out of proportion with my tummy, don't you think?
I hadn't actually realised how big it is. Kim Kardashian, eat your heart out;)
I'll upload another full bomdy photo from the front, its a little more flattering. |
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Submissive women generally seem to get the most messages, although one who makes it clear she is not for the taking and will not entertain time-wasters apparently gets no messages.
Interesting. |
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If you're going to message me, UNDERSTAND that I am 110% committed to my relationship with my Daddy and will not partake in conversations involving roleplay or anybody telling me they wish to know me as a little. |
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Everybody is different, do we all understand that?
Good, so why are people still asking silly questions?
I understand that most people like their Daddy Dom to be much older than themselves but its not a massive factor, personally. Surely the most important thing should be their mentality/ideals/demeanour/etc.?
Yeah, it helps if your Daddy is bigger than you and stronger and more experienced and is a man (as opposed to a kid), but they do not have to be twice your age. I like having a daddy that's close to my age, I happen to find him very attractive, and he gives me what I need.
My daddy and I have a full relationship, with and without the kinks. Admittedly, I do find myself calling after daddy most of the time, and I like him to cuddle me and show me affection as daddy more than as himself. It hasn't always been like that, and there was a time without it, but I've found that letting it grow naturally as the relationship has grown, has made the bond tighter between daddy and I. People have asked why I'm so loyal and devoted to him, and the answer is simple.
He has helped me in all aspects of my life. He supported me through my struggles, comforted me through dark times, shared the good times, shown me more love,respect and affection than I could've ever imagined. I have grown and flourished because of him, and I can't ever repay that.
I've also seen his suffering in life, and I am determined to do everything I can to make sure he never falls that far again.
I love my Daddy because he is an amazing person when he's not being Daddy. This is the only type of longterm partnership anybody should ever attempt. Its the only way to satisfy 100% of your needs as a person. |
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You cannot look for a lifelong sub/slave/Dom of any kind without looking for the person behind the title. They would essentially be a spouse and you can't enter into that kind of commitment lightly.
Fair enough if your relationship BECOMES lifelong after some time, but you can't go about expecting something lifelong straight off the bat.
We're all people here. We all have lives outside of the scene, and a partnership between Dom/sub is also a form of relationship between two actual people.
I wish there were less stupid people here. |
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Looking for Daddy's to message me about toys etc. specific to Daddy Doms and Littles. Would like to know about any memorable experiences or recommendations you may have.:) |
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Daddy goes back uni tomorrow. He's only a busride away, but it's gonna be strange no having him here everyday. |
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He's more than my boyfriend, but not my full-time Dom. He's been my Daddy, my master and even on rare occasions my plaything. It's not your average relationship, not even by CollarSpace standards, and it's confusing as Hell half the time.
In truth, I don't always like it. I know I make my life difficult and complicated, and I could just as easily go setttle into something easier that requires no effort and has a man worshipping me for nothing (not in the BDSM sense).
Therein lies the problem, I'd be settling - for someone who hasn't experienced half of what I have and wouldn't see me for me. Maybe I could find someone who adorns me with gifts and attention, and brings out the best in me, or someone who would take care of me, so I never had to worry a single day. I know there are men like that out there.
But I'm not in the company of a man like that. He is independent and challenging, with mind of his own that he doesn't even understand. He's faced constant trials and tribulations over his time, some of which I've also had to endure. He doesn't lavish me like a princess, because frankly, I don't deserve it. And most importantly, he brings out the worst in me. Not out of spite, and maybe not even purposely, but he does show me sides of myself I'm horrified exist. The jealousy, petty childish nonsense, ignorance, maliciousness and selfishness that I'd always tried to suppress. How he does it, I have no idea, but its the best thing for me. He shows me all of my flaws so I can improve myself, not for his sake but for my own. I've seen the other side of the coin and realised that it needs polishing, because of him.
With all of that, comes the benefits. With seeing my flaws properly and bettering myself, I've changed in leaps and bounds. I'm more confident in every aspect, I care more than I did before, my empathy has grown as well as my understanding of everything else around me, I'm not afraid of myself or of other people, and I'm not afraid to live.
Though its only been less than a year and a half, he's helped me more than I imagined, in more ways than I thought possible. So following my recent change of heart, I'm wondering if I was wrong. While I have my dominant streak, maybe I'm not a switch, maybe I am in fact a Little. I implore any of you supposed Daddy Doms to tell me that he is not doing exactly what a Daddy is supposed to and more. I thought I was done with that phase, that I had experimented and now its time to turn the tables, but obviously not. In writing this, I've realised what it means to commit to being someone's Daddy. It is not a phase, or a session, or playtime, its not excuse or a mask or a title, and it is not just anybody.
It is a choice, one that's woven into every aspect of a relationship, and is imprinted in your personality. Its not a choice, or something you can win, its who you are, or who you are not. After all this time, I know he is my Daddy and will continue to be for the foreseeable future. I'm not switch, I'm sub, HIS babygirl no less, with all the playtimes and punishments that come with it. He may let me experience my dominant streak, but he will never be anything other than my Daddy. |
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Just had play as a domme and it really got me off. I didn't do much, tied him up, blindfolded him, "cut off the gas", let him wear the collar, spanked him lightly with a belt as he counted for me, verbally humiliated him, made him beg a little and teased him for quite a while. It was by no means rough or super kinky but we both enjoyed it and had amazing sex afterwards.
I found that I felt very submissive after I'd had my play, and overall very relaxed and happy, back to my usual self you could say. Maybe there's a balance to be found here, maybe I've figured out what I want. |
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Just a quick memo to say I can't seem to change my profile picture, but I can add photos, which I have so that'll have to do for now.
If anybody interested in talking about their experiences as a switch or Dom/Domme, send me a message. |
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After having received a number of messages offering a place to talk, and a few conversations on the topic, I've found I didn't need what I thought I did. Having said that, I'm not entirely sure what I'm here for. I'm not interested in meeting people, not interestedin roleplay, and I don't need help. I'll respond to messages, sure, but I'm not actively looking for anything. |
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In need of some guidance. Not from a Dom or a sub, but from a real person who can help me out with my confusing feelings. |
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So it's been a while since I logged on, and a lot has changed for me. I'm not entirely sure that I'm going to stick around, even with several decent conversations I have right now. Things have been difficult since Daddy and I parted ways. Of course he's happy, he has returned to his previous Little. But I do feel abandoned and am wondering if it'd be better to put this part of my life behind me? I'll know soon enough. |
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I had a panic attack today. The first time my social anxiety has been this bad in months. I have no idea what caused it, or how to stop it. I just couldn't breathe. I thought I was going to die. I wanted to die. I'm so scared. I don't think I'll be hanging around groups anytime soon. I don't know what to do anymore. |
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Daddy punished me for losing my phone, and then for being late. I think that was one of the longest 25minutes of my life. I'm still not sure how I feel to be perfectly honest. I think I'll keep both eyes on the time in future. |
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I'm in two minds about punishment.
On the one hand, I don't like it. I'm being punished, the point of it IS that I'm doing something I dislike.
On the other hand, I love it. Or maybe I just like the attention Daddy gives me.
Maybe THAT'S why I'm still bratty. Maybe. |
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I'm having one of those days again.
One of those days where I want it to be just Daddy and me 24/7, even if only for a week.
I feel like I'm in two relationships right now. One with my boyfriend, and one with Daddy. It's not a bad thing, having our little secret, I just want to be with Daddy more and more.
I know I would miss the Vanilla side of things after some time but right now, all I want to do is curl up on Daddy's lap with my Teddy and make Him happy. |
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I didn't want Daddy to leave so I got bratty and He's tied me up in bed until He gets back in an hour. |
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Daddy is staying over again tonight. I've put my hair in a pretty bow, brushed my teeth, and found some very pretty pink laced knickers. I hope Daddy is pleased with his little girl. |
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We've been spending a lot of time together, Daddy and I, and I think it was only earlier this week when I realised I wanted it to be a fairly big part of my life.
Obviously the Vanilla side of things is amazing, I don't want to lose that, especially around friends. Should they find out, I think it would make life very difficult.
Not a lot changes around the others really. It's in His nature to be caring and wise, so essentially He is still my Daddy, I just use His grown-up name.
I had always thought it was just in the bedroom He was my Daddy, but it's so much more than that, and I fear I may be enjoying it more than He is. I should speak to Him about it. |
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| Age: 35 |
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New York |
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