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CollarSafety101

I apologize if you are just getting this message
1. There is absolutely NO reason to not spend 6 months - 1 year getting to know a potential Master. The only reason you have to meet a Master in a hotel room alone in 1 week is because you are horny and stupid.

Sick people out there have easy targets for a submissive who is willing to walk into a room and let someone bind them, blindfold them, and tape up their mouths.
? You do not KNOW that person. It takes 6 months for a human personality to truly surface. The sickos looking for easy targets wont even give you a week, let lone 6 months. Even if you have no intentions of getting tied up your 1st time -- you dont know if that person has someone else waiting outside. You dont know if that person is trained in combat and easily break your nose before cuffing you to shove you in a body bag.

A good way to set your tone is find out certain things about them that prove to you that they are safe. >>>>>

-Does their story make sense about who they are and why they are looking for someone?
-Do they talk to me with the right pronunciation?
-Are they overly demanding and/or rush me?
-Do they want me to sign a contract but they dont even care to find out for sure if I AM REAL?

Human Traffickers can make a pretty penny on an easily abducted body. Where did you come from, where did you go, and that fake profile you met them from is deleted with no evidence.

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A rule I have always gone by is have some REAL info on the person you are meeting with. Have proof of an address and tell a friend or family member you can trust where you are going and when you should return. Ask to see an ID if you must meet in person right away to verify they are who they say they are. Write down a license plate number, why should they care if you do? You can write down any license plate number of any car any day. Text the license number to your friend with the address and the name.

Now, if I actually ever felt like I had to go to the extreme of checking an ID I opted out of meeting someone. I have 2 very good best friends I met on this site. I have also met and played with 2-3 others. But I have ALMOST met with some profiles who I am adamantly sure are sickos.

A sicko is not interested in YOU. Getting to know you if you are real. They will not give you a fucking hour to decide if you are their property. You just are.



2. Any member behind a profile can give you a fake story. Make a fake ID, use a fake address, use a borrowed, stolen, rented car, junked car... I always check profile dates as a rule of thumb. Anyone can get on cam you dont know their real location, their connection to law, or mobs, or morgues.

If a profile is outdated, from 2004-2007 Im very cautious.
If a profile is too new, within 2014-current Im very cautious.

Why have they not found someone? Why is ever single excuse exactly the same when they do not have a submissive anymore? Their mom got cancer they had to fly home... really? How about some references? How about some not FAKE references, how can you tell?

If something doesnt make sense it is probably not true. Do you make sense? Are you planning to hurt someone? So why is this person coming off so inconsiderate of your precaution? Are they ok with you questioning them? Does it come off like your questioning makes them nervous? Do they change up their story / do they lie?

If you were interviewing someone to tie you up and chop you up into little pieces while you were alive would you ask a million questions about that person before you walked into a room alone with them? So why would you meet with a complete stranger from a BDSM website without verifying to yourself that they are going to have your absolute best interest in mind?

You can get to know someone before you sign a contract, move, or get completely bound helpless. Sickos are banking on naive horny submissives with no families and nowhere to go. You are trusting someone who doesnt even trust you. For all they know you are a cop and are only as cautious to make sure you arent a set up. Trust me, they are here predominantly. Anyone not willing to get to know you and let you trust them and give YOUR LIFE up to them -- is not worth your life.


Dont fucking use that IM A MASTER card bullshit You dont this and that these are your sLAVES...

A slave is simply a relationship with a MASTER they willingly give up to serve. Maybe that means put them in a box for the rest of their lives but it is up to the slave to make the final decision if they are going to let a Master take them who will put them in a box.

And that is what this profile is created for by my Mistress.

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4/9/2015 9:20:13 AM
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.?246038-WI-LAKE-GENEVA-SUITCASE-MURDERS-Laura-Simonson-amp-Jenny-Gamez-1&p=10661831#post10661831
4/8/2015 7:24:54 AM
Submimssive RIGHTS

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4761505/tm.htm


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You have the right to dictate what he wears. It's called negotiation, he'll agree or not. It's not like anyone will hurt you for having rules, but they damn sure can hurt you for not having rules. 

Submission is not a gift. If it were a gift you could gift it to any random person, such is the nature of a gift... gifts are meant to be no reciprocal and given freely. 

Submission is the greatest treasure you have in WIITWD, and should be guarded like the treasure that it is, and the only people that should ever have access to the vault is the person worthy of guarding that treasure. They must EARN security clearance that will give them access by respecting your limits, boundaries, and rules. Furthermore, to get within ogling distance of your submission, they need to be able to facilitate all of your needs, and accept, perhaps indulge, your wants. 

I call submission, Plunder. It is the treasure that I am after, and their are thousands of black hearted pirates out there that are trying to get to it before me. If I earn the trust, acknowledge and respect the limits, boundaries, and rules, can facilitate her needs and have an interest in her wants as something I want to participate in, then I set myself above those other thieving pirates, put myself on deck, and once she opens the vault of submission, that plunder is MINE!!! 

I shall polish it, covet it, hoard it, hold it in my lap and love it because it is mine, mine, mine, all MINE!!!! And woe to the snake hearted bastard that tries to take what is mine. 

Jus sayin 
3/14/2015 8:51:39 PM
I once chatted with a user from this site who would occasionally click on a very strange noise that didn't sound right to me; like a low frequency humming through a cylinder block, or something, that made the hairs stand up from the back of my neck to my arms from time to time away from the foreground while over the weeks getting to know each other on the phone. I asked several times what it was but never got a straight answer. It wasnt until the day we had agreed upon meeting he admitted a very sick confession to me and I cancelled our arrangements. He began laughing a devilish psychotic laughter - still trying to convince me to meet with him.

It was at this point I heard a loud clacking of a switch and the familiar hum was now the roaring buzz of a bandsaw this time projecting with much more volume. He walked into the room holding the phone closely where I was then able to definitely interpret it was infact a blade operating at high velocity.

His sick fantasy was to "know my insides, and outs". He thought I was fooled by the ambiguousness of his statement, but it was the context of our discussion, and everything else we had talked about, that it was clear to me exactly what he meant: he meant it exactly as I spelled it. His profile is no longer on this site at the time of writing this journal - it was at the time of the creation of this profile.

I no longer use this website to meet others unfortunately. Member since 2007. 3 very good irl friends from this site - fakes, and dangerous experiences such as this one grossly outnumber those odds.

Be careful on this site. He wasn't the only one I had an experience like that on here.