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CollarDomDan

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Hello. First of all there are a few things you should know. One, I am completely new to the fetish world. Two, I have no sexual experience whatsoever. Three, I am not interested in a fling or casual sex, only in a friendship which could possibly turn into a relationship which includes fetish aspects. With these things said, I am a relatively normal person. I am an engineering student and am currently attending college full time. I like SCUBA and dancing, but not clubbing. On the fetish side, I am open to try most things. I am not interested in pain play or any form of play without a safe word. I WILL NOT hurt my partner in any way. If you are looking to be roughly handled or tortured, you can go somewhere else. I consider myself to be a gentleman who happens to have a certain predisposed curiosity with BDSM and anal play. I would also ask that you please be within a few years of my age to contact me. I am 21 and would be interested in meeting those in the age range of 18-25. Safety and trust are my top concerns. I am always concerned with safety, both during play and after (STDs), and would ask that you be like minded if you want to contact me. I would also ask that you expect me to want to get to know you prior to any sexual interactions.

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5/7/2014 12:43:56 AM
I just thought I would put this out there. It is very hard to get introduced to this lifestyle gradually, especially if it is your first experience with relationships. I got jaded to the idea of a regular relationship before ever having one and, while I do want to have a vanilla side to any relationship I have, the idea of a solely vanilla lifestyle seems unappealing at the moment. On a related note, it is difficult to get in touch wit people who want to have an actual relationship in this lifestyle. It seems like the expectation is for play first and then the possibility of a relationship, not the other way around. I know that I personally could not enjoy myself with someone unless I had the bond of trust behind a relationship prior to any form of sexual play. This is kind of a rant, but if anyone else feels similarly I hope I have at least made them feel like they aren't alone in their thoughts.

7/16/2013 1:08:27 AM
Trying to figure out how to become involved in the BDSM scene is very confusing. Especially coming from a vanilla environment.

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mjhay
 
 Age: 41
 United Kingdom