I am a patient, Dominant male looking to continue the journey to free my true dominant nature. There is no one type of Dom just as there is not a single sub/slave personality. While pain, force and the like can be interesting tactical tools, I prefer to control by knowing & possessing the innermost being of my sub.
I have no time for those who view the lifestyle in black and white. (With that being said, black and white has a place, for contrast in your profile. If you are going to use black for the background color, don't use navy blue for the type color!)
Conversation with sub/slaves interested in becoming acquainted and exploring the nuances of BDSM is welcomed.
I am not into BS and neither expect or will take any in return.
Life is truly known only to those who suffer, lose, endure adversity and stumble from defeat to defeat. Anais Nin
10/30/2009 2:42:27 AM
If you aren't in over your head, how do you know how tall you are? T. S. Eliot
He who wishes to be obeyed must know how to command. Niccolo Machiavelli
3/20/2008 12:25:04 PM
I live in sin, to kill myself I live; no longer my life my own, but sin's; my good is given to me by heaven, my evil by myself, by my free will, of which I am deprived. Michelangelo
2/23/2008 11:56:38 AM
A dominant is a ruler, but never a tyrant. But to rule requires understanding, and understanding requires humility.
A dominant has pride, but never arrogance. But pride requires dignity, and dignity requires humility.
A dominant commands respect, but never fear. But respect requires serenity, and serenity requires humility.
A dominant employs strength, but never force. But strength requires knowledge, and knowledge requires humility.
A dominant criticizes, but never derides. But criticism requires insight, and insight requires humility.
A dominant receives, but never takes. But receiving requires giving, and giving requires humility.
A dominant completes, but never tries to alter. But to complete one must be able to see what is there, not what is missing, and this most of all requires humility.
--J. Mikael Togneri
1/17/2008 4:28:46 PM
I am always up for a good quote. I ran across this one today. "In each of us are places where we have never gone. Only by pressing the limits will you ever find them" -Joyce Brothers
