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I'm a dominant male living and working in the Greater Washington DC and Baltimore Areas.

I seek mostly friends and play partners at the moment, but would certainly not mind finding a submissive or switch girlfriend or a female slave for longer term arrangements. Online or phone play can be fun too, though certainly more as a distraction than anything else.

I've been active in the lifestyle since I was about 18, so I have had about 6 years of "participation," so to speak. As a Dom, I can be quite sadistic and rough, but I do enjoy switching it up quite a bit, and have developed an appreciation for a variety of experiences and practices, from the sensual to the more "extreme".
11/3/2010 8:49:01 AM

NOTE: This is far from the ONLY thing I am looking for or considering, but is something I am definitely interested in should the possibility arise). At the moment, it should be seen as an eventual goal.

I am always on the lookout  for a slave (or very submissive) female, preferrably close to my age (though I have played with people between 18 and 40, and would consider all candidates in that range), for a collar/ownership arrangement, potentially long term. Local ladies will be given preference, simply because the logistics are a lot simpler, but I will consider those willing to relocate. Just be aware that neither of us will be jumping into a "permanent" situation - there will need to be an initial, mutual which will essentially be a longer term "ownership" scenario, with all the implications that that carries, but for a limited time line - likely between one and three months). After that trial period, either one of us may be free to end the arrangement if it was not to our liking. If both of us choose to renew, we can go forward on an indefinite basis. In the case of "relocatable" gals, just keep all that in mind. You will need to be aware and prepared for both potential outcomes (either staying indefinitely, or staying only short term), and will need to plan accordingly.

As for what kind of arrangement this will be, I am looking for a service slave and companion foremost, and a sexual slave as a close second. That means that this will not be a "princess" arrangement. Maybe more of a "Cinderalla". The candidate must be prepared to carry out chores and duties, and potentially work to earn her keep. I am self employed, so she may serve as a secretary / personal assistant, bookkeeper, etc (she may potentially hold a part time job as well, to supplement her own income and mine). In addition, she may serve as cook, maid, artist's model, basically anything I may require at the time. Where there is a lack of skill, specific training will be provided. The right girl may even come away from the situation with something quite marketable.

She will be treated quite equitably within the scope of our arrangement, and we will discuss both of our needs to make sure they are met. However, the slave or (in the case of a submissive) the "servant" will be expected to show deferrence and complete obedience in all proper contexts (that doesn't mean all the time - there will be times when we may interact as equals or companions), and to act with devotion both in and out of the bedroom. Obviously, proper methods of correction will be applied as necessary, and the sub/slave must be prepared to receive "out of context" punishment, or to be used, at my discretion, and for my pleasure/amusement.

The exact terms will be flexible and up for discussion - as I do understand that the sub may have various life concerns, preferences, or schedule issues that will need to be taken into account.

Obviously, the way things go, I will most likely be contacting you, but very much welcome applicants that come of their own accord. If I do message you, it is because something in your profile indicated that you may be interested in such an arrangement (I will certainly be mistaken on occasion), and/or that we may be a good match either for such a long term setup, or as friends or more casual partners.

As always, chemistry, mutual trust, and amicable feelings on both ends are a must for any arrangement to go forward. Even if you are the sort who tends towards extreme slavery, I'd still want to know something about you.

punkylildevil
 
 Age: 25
 Montogomery, Alabama