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Hello, I am a natural dominant who is primarily looking for someone that doesn't mind exploring BDSM to the fullest with a dominant that has years of experience. After living the lifestyle for over 11 years I find that I am in a constant state of self exploration and development and find that I still am learning.

I have been involved with BDSM ever since I was eighteen so I have about 11 years of experience. Coming from a small town I was unable to explore the lifestyle to its full potential until I graduated high school and left home. Ever since than I have had a few long term relationships and am now looking for another submissive.
Outside of BDSM I work as a software engineer and have an extremely wide variety of interests. When it comes to BDSM the list to the left lists some of my interests, however to reiterate my primary interests are in control, humiliation and rough play. This takes many forms including bondage, obedience training, pet play, blindfolds, handcuffs, role play, breasts/nipple play, verbal and physical humiliation.
What I am looking for in a submissive more than anything is someone that is a true submissive. When I say this I mean someone that can take pleasure and enjoyment out of pleasing their dominant and isn't just into this lifestyle as a means of kinky sex. I have had vanilla relationships in the past and they have almost always failed. Where as even the submissives and slaves I have had that are no longer with me keep in touch and we remain close friends. Experience level doesn't matter to me at all. I'm fine with taking in complete novices or people that have years of experience like myself. I'm also looking for a service oriented submissive. Someone that can follow orders and direction and takes pleasure in being controlled.

I've been somewhat active in the local BDSM community but not as much as I once was. I still try to attend the munches and have lots of friends that are involved with the lifestyle.
katiemaga
 
 Age: 41
 North of Tampa, Florida