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	People Lie. A lot. Especially here. There is nothing I could write here about myself that should impress anyone. Only easily verifiable facts and actions matter. However I have to say something or you won't know what I'm about. Here are some things that you can believe or not believe. Message me and I'll tell you easy ways to find out if they are true (you should be able to figure out why each of these things is important). I have a happy, disciplined, and satisfied slave with high self esteem, who is very intelligent and sparkly I have been successfully living in this 24/7 TPE relationship since July of 2004 My slave and I have hosted local BDSM munches, organized play parties, and facilitated other events for the local BDSM and Poly communities. We are currently a little burnt out on it, but may pick it up again at some point. We are polyamorous, and 'out' and play well with others on many different levels. We have been this way a long time and have no animosity from any past playmates. All of my past playmates and lovers who are still in this area are still good friends with both my slave and I I have written, and facilitated the publishing of quite a bit of alternative lifestyle material online. I occasionally teach and organize BDSM workshops, classes, private coaching, and demos. I am 'a Type', but my slave is hot by anyone's standards and has lots of pictures to prove it We are real -------------------------------- I am not boring enough to be looking for one specific thing, however, that doesn't mean I don't know what I want. Here are some good options for people I would like to talk to: Local and distant friends to chat with about interesting topics - NOT BDSM 101. The exception to the "no BDSM 101" rule is that I'm always interested in talking to new slaves who are curious about what it is really like to live this way, AND who are willing to let me poke around in their head and see what makes them tick. The variety in people's motivations is interesting to me. Cliche topics like RACK vs SSC - not so much anymore. Local people of any kind who would like to meet any other kind of people nearby who are into the same things - I know a lot of people and LOVE playing matchmaker. We are always looking for playmates (together and separately). That means friends with benefits, NOT one night stands. We won't play with anyone who looks like a dramafest waiting to happen, or who doesn't understand the concept of "Just Playing". Long distance yummies to daydream about who will return the daydreams. Even if there is never any expectation that anything will happen, knowing there are people out there who are good is enough to give hope when other people start to suck. I am also looking for another long term girl who has something significant to offer other than being a pillow decoration. I am very picky about this one, so I'm not going to go into all of the details here since it's much more likely I'm going to find the other options on this site. Ask if you're curious. On a slightly off topic note, I've recently been hosting people via the Wwoof program. Obviously it would be inappropriate to involve them in what I get up to, but I've been thinking it'd be fun on both ends to set up that kind of arrangement with someone who consented to that kind of thing. If you're familiar with how that works, and are curious, definitely send me a note. --------------------------------------------- Here are some other things you should know. Neither of us are interested in boys. Sorry. Your sub frenzy is not my responsibility unless I tell you I'm interested. I will respond like a civilized person to messages from anyone with a brain - But subbing at me will not get you attention until I know you well enough. Otherwise, how do I know if I want to accept the responsibility that goes along with responding to it. If you're purely a pain slut, we probably won't have much to talk about other than other people. If I don't get to play in your head, I'll be bored. If you're trying to be uber extremer then thou, or lying about anything important, I will humor you so that I can laugh at you - Don't be fooled into thinking I'm buying it. I will not submit to you. Ever. If you have read this far and are curious but are too shy to message me, then you are probably exactly who I want to be talking to. Send something short and simple.

11/28/2012 12:58:42 PM

I am currently hosting what one might call a "Foreign exchange student" - although she is not exactly in school (wink). My household is set up for two girls again and things are going very well, so I am not looking for anyone new right now. However, her Visa expires in April, and she will have to go home. It would be nice to find someone wanting to fill that space when she leaves so that we don't have to adjust to being a two person household. It's so much easier to keep things kinky and interesting with three of us... If this sounds interesting to you, send me a note. If you seem genuine, I'll arrange for you to talk to my girls so that you can get a realistic idea of what to expect.

10/18/2010 12:54:40 PM

For about the past year, my household has included two girls and a lot of activity which has left little time for updating profiles or communicating with people who I don't see in person. While I would like to respond to everyone who sends a message, sometimes it's just not possible. Don't let that stop you though. If I find you interesting enough, I will make some time.