Disclaimer: the following is my opinion and is not a reflection on you and your kink.

I don't mind the occasional pantie wearing to spice things up but I'm not really into the full blown, cross-dresser, feminization type kink. I prefer my women to have a pussy and my men to have a dick. So, with that said, if feminization, cross-dressing, sissy-fication is your main kink then you're probably not the one for me.

I think I suffer from my home training...meaning. I'm too nice lol. I have a hard time being a demanding bitch to someone that I've just met or don't know very well. My mother always told me that I have to be nice to strangers. So sub guys who meet me expect me to get "in character" right away and it isn't gonna happen. I need to get to know the person before I start bossing him around. And you, subby guy, will need to like the nice me before you get to see The Bitch :) If there is a connection, trust me, you will know it. In short, I can be a demanding, sadistic bitch but only to those I know and care about. Oh what a twisted life I lead. lol!

How I feel about "friend requests" that are sent on Collarme.com: If I don't know you personally, which is defined as having met offline, have had meaning conversations not involving spankings, strap-ons, or how you want to worship my feet, I do not consider you a "friend" so please stop sending me those annoying requests! If you want to get to know me then send me a message.

And here is a hint as to how you might get a response... Say something intelligent. What do I mean? First, introduce yourself (Hi, my name is Bob.) Tell me something about yourself, especially if you profile is blank. Show me that you are a real person interested in a real D/s relationship and not a creep who trolls the internet looking for ways to get off.

Sad that I have to say this:

Reasons why you will be blocked.

1. I have taken the time to tell you why I am not interested yet you still insist on sending me messages. This does not refer to those of you that I have had ongoing conversations with.

2. Offering me money to do something that IS NOT on my list of interested. I'm sure you will have no problem find a Pro that will do exactly what you want for a price.

3. Offering me money period. Money is not a motivator for me. Who you are as a person and compatibility is what I am interested in.

4. Being a rude and obnoxious little twit! This one will get you blocked immediately.

Thanks for reading!

I *heart* OTK spanking! Actually, I love standing up spankings, laying down spankings, 'try and get away if u can' spankings. Ok...stratch that I *heart* ALL kinds of spankings...lol! With my bare hands of course...all the better to feel the heat rising off of your cute little ass and the raised welts that make u moan when I run my nails over them. The way u clinch your ass when I pull my hand away preparing for the next strike...sigh...

So the responses to my last (and first) entry has been VERY positive. Still no pet but I think that I'm on my way to at least making some really cool friends. All is not lost... stay tuned, work in progress...

Seems to me that the nice girl is finishing last. Maybe if I say stuff like "You worthless piece of shit!!! Lick the bottom of my boot!!! and if you do a good job, I'll trample your balls as a reward and you will thank me for it!" Sad part is....I would trample your balls if you asked nicely...lol. I'm really thinking about going back to the vanilla world to find my pet. Maybe I'm just too nice for Collarme. I'm not a pro, I don't want your money and I actually like men. sigh...