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w/m Dominant seeks slave/sub for relationship, live in possible for right slave. all inquirys will be answered
Ok i have been here a while and i know my slave is out there. I am not a player, i am real and want a real time slave to live in my house. Take a chance and write me, you might be glad you did. Coatch I do not believe one can make a good decsion based on the few remarks made here in the profile. I have had many who have read my profile and write saying i am not their type?? thats silly, talk to me and lets see what happens
Also, read many profiles saying they wont an swer one lne inquiries and ok but when you recieve an individuaslly written letter you shojuld at least take the time to respond even if just to say no thanks. It is frustrating to tax my brain writing a witty letter which goes unanswered. There has to be a girl out there who geunuinely wants an intelligent,fun loving, kinky, openmnded, strict, permanent Master. There just has to be.
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People people people, If we are going to be in the lifestyle we should at least use the right words. When you command someone you dominate them i agree but when you describe yourself as a dominate it really sounds silly. The word to use is dominant. So if you are seeking you are seeking a dominant not a dominate.
Those of you who are playng games, do you realise how much that is hurting every one who is looking in ernest? It is not funny or cool to mess with people, it just is a childish thing to do. what you all are doing is like letting as vbirus loose. your few minutes of fun are ruining this medium. people are just plain giving up on it and if things do not change the rooms will go the way of cb radios and hula hoops. grow up before it is too late. Hewp make the net a better place for all of us. |
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will be gone from now until dec 28 visiting family, leave message and i will respond as soon as i can |
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the thbing, no matter who you are or what you seek there is someone out there who matches you, they may be hard to find but if you settle for something else the one you seek might walk right by you. Some people, especially newbies, are very excited and eager to pair up and they will take anyone who comes along and so they lose. And people, most of us have tendency towards being overweight, but to omit that fom your profile is another losing cause. It is best to lket it e known upfront instead of later when you have spent tim e wooing that special person who you finsally meet and they are put off by your weight and so you have wasted your time and thers and have angered them. Besides whichm we all talk about honesty and how can we
be honest if even our profile is misleading? |
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I have read many many profiles from all sorts of dfferent needs and wants of men women and in between. There are common threads running through them which need to be addressed and understood. I doubt my fingers or the clock will al,low me to write it all out tonight so please check back and read my additions.
First all the single most important thing wrong here is the liars fakes and players. They really mess it up for everyone as trust is a major issue in our searcxh for the right partner or partners. So many women are tired of being lied to they have adopted attitudes and write sad things in their profiles. It appears most un submissive in content. Yet many of these women are as fake as the men. for various reasons, some are bored and just out for thrills, others think they are submissive but are not. Others think submission is a gift. Nothing is farther from the truth. domination/submission are character traits within a person. They start young usually and they pull a person towards dominance or submission. Is mportant to remember that people in the lifestyle are as different as people in vanilla life and each has their own special desires and needs. These needs are very real and a person who needs to be used, abused, tortured, humiliated in reaL actually absolutely needs this. They did not choose this, it is inside them and if they do not get what they need they will always be unsettled and unhappy. Those who have the need to dominate need this as well, if they find a sub who is not a true sub they soon discover that and they are also miserable. Take the time to look inside yourself and try to leaRN WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU NEED. YOU MUST BE WHAT YOU ARE OR YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY. go to the websites, read the books, if you do not do this you will never know the true feeling of being what you are and you can possibly fool the world but you will never fool yourself., Is is important to find someone compatible with your needs. If you are a daddy`s girl you must find a real daddy dom If you are a pony Dom you must find a pony girl.
There is no shame in being a newbie, everyone had to start somewhere, just don`t try to pass yourself off as experienced as you will eventually fail.
Do not lie about your marital status or your situation or your job or fortune, you will be discovered. If a prospective partner can not give you their true identity, phone number and address in reasonable time a red flag should fly. If you are married you must think about what will happen when you are discovered and trust me its not IF it is when. and it will likely be ugly. and ugly for all. not just for you but for your family, children parents carreers and more. Not to mention the one who gave you their heart and body.
If you are married you have choices, either try to teach your partner what you need and if that proves impossible then either forego the d/s lifestyle or end the marriage as then you can do as you please without fear.
In order to live the lifestyle the way you wish in the situation you need so much honesty and trust is required that even simple lies will ruin the experience. you must work to earn and learn trust so completely that you can share all thoughts with your partner b ecause if you fear to share you can never live them. If you lie to your partner you will never know the true feeling of the lifestyle as you will know you are playing a game. and therefore all you have at best is some kinky sex. If all you seek is kinky sex just say so, there are those who only seek the same. If you have very low self esteem and are not really into the lifestyle other than thinking itis the only way you will find a partner,please give it up and go elsewhere. once you find a partner you will soon tire of the lifestyle.
W#ed all came here looking for something different and special, let`s alll help each other to attain that, whatever it is and lets respect each others differences without judgment or scorn. The vanilla world says we are wwierdo`s, sickos, crazies. We know this is not true and we are some of the warmest kindest people that exist. B e happy.
ok thats all for tonight. m fingers aRE WORN OUT, I DO WELCOME YOUR COMMENTS BOTH POS AND NEG. COATCH
ok thats enough for tonight, i am open to youjr comments pos or neg. Be well friends be happy and most of all be who you are. |
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| Age: 22 |
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