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Clyph

I'm a 41 year old technology professional who moonlights as a fine art photographer.  If you want to see my work, just ask.

I am looking for non-exclusive casual play partners (either sexual or non-sexual), as well as people (of any gender or orientation) who have an interest in fetish modeling.  I'm not looking to jump into a long-term relationship, but I'm not opposed to the possibility of one developing over time.  I am polyamorous and am not interested in monogamous relationships.   Polyfidelity might be an option with the right people.

My professional and family situation requires that I keep a low profile, which is why I've only posted a silhouette.  If you want to see an unobscured photo of me, just ask.

The most important thing I am looking for in a partner is compatibility in personality and interests (both scene and vanilla). 

My ideal partner is a submissive or switch who is intelligent, educated, refined, emotionally stable, career-oriented, and most of all drama-free.  I have zero patience for having my time wasted or immature high school bullshit.

Age and appearance are secondary considerations to compatibility and chemistry.  While I firmly believe that age is only a number, I generally prefer partners within 10 or so years of my age in either direction... although I won't rule anything out on the basis of age if we are otherwise compatible.

I've been in the scene for 15 years, but I haven't been very active since my oldest child was born.  I'd like to change that.

I have a wide range of scene interests; about the only things that don't interest me are medical scenes, needleplay, or any kind of potty play. 

Considering my interest in photography, it should come as no surprise that I have a big voyeuristic streak.  I've been told by several people that I'm a good teacher and mentor for novices.

Outside of the scene, my main interests are science & technology, the visual arts, and reading (sci-fi mostly).  I used to be a gamer (old school RPGs and wargames) but I don't have much time for that anymore.   Yeah, I'm a geek, and it would help a lot if you're a geekette.  I have a very scientific and intellectual worldview and don't have much patience for superstitious nonsense.

Considering that fetish photography is one of my main interests, being photogenic and a bit of an exhibitionist is a definite plus, but it is by no means a necessity. 

Even if I'm not your type (or you're not mine), keep in mind that I'm always interested in working with experienced or aspiring models on a purely professional basis.

I am a non-smoker, a light drinker, and drug & disease free; I expect the same from my partners.  Safe play only should go without saying. 

I am not interested in any kind of on-line relationship.  If you're not interested in meeting in real life (even if it's just for coffee or drinks) within a reasonable timeframe, please don't waste my time.