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Publicly, I am straight acting, some have even found me to be stand-offish and would say that I act like "the type who says without actually saying: 'Don't fuck with me' when not in the gay scene"

I do have a sense of humor, and once I get to know you (in real life) you will see that I am not that much of a "tough guy"

I am in the closet. I have two roommates that do not know, and would not accept my sexual orientation.
So discretion must be considered unless in an open gay environment.
This also means that I will not entertain guests.

I am single, and not really looking or a ltr, though I am open to the possibility. (kind of like not looking to find money on the sidewalk, but not being ashamed to take it when you do...)

Some have said that I am "the perfect sex toy for a married man to have" and I am not opposed to sneaking around with married or other closeted men.

"In the sack" I can act virtually however you want me to act.
From the butch biker type to a feminine twink. I am not limited to "gender" roles either. If you seek the femme tg that acts and dresses up like a naive virgin school girl, I can do this as well.
Role playing seems to come easy to me, and I am not bound to mindsets.

Stats:
30 y/o
5'11"
Long dark auburn hair (brown with traces of dark to light red hair, black and a few grey/white strands)
Hazel (green,blue,brown) eyes
White skinned (almost glowing in the dark...) with freckles
Medium build, approx 175 pounds
Little body hair
No tattoos
I am a smoker. A pack lasts me three days. (Though I am currently trying to quit)

I do not like to place myself in a set category like being gay, straight, or bisexual.
Although I enjoy watching watching women in sexual scenarios, I do not enjoy having intercourse with women.
(With the exception of receiving a strap-on or oral.)
I also like to be dominated by women as well as men.
(This does not mean sex has to be involved.)
I am a bottom, and not versatile.

I do not enjoy receiving oral, but I am not opposed to receiving oral stimulation.
The truth is, although I enjoy having a cock; I dislike being sexually stimulated (receiving a blow job or being jacked off) though in the right situations it is acceptable. I know that this can confuse alot of people, so feel free to ask for any clarification.

I consider myself a submissive, though I have a fantasy in my stories section that involves me being dominant.

In the bedroom I am naturally passive and demure.
(Through I can get pretty verbal during anal intercourse)

I am anally experienced, almost to the point of being a "butt slut" (Both being tied up as well as "back that ass up" mode)
I am not a "size queen". This is important, I have enjoyed five inches and up. Being well endowed its not an issue with me.

With the exception of oral, I play it safe. This means using condoms when having sexual intercourse, even if more than one partner is involved.

As for oral, I am orally challenged
(I enjoy giving oral, though I have little tolerance to prolonged sessions or deep throat. I am actively seeking a partner to help me improve this through, if possible; forced oral {where I am immobile, with an o-ring gag that keeps my mouth fully open} I have a gag reflex that is very sensitive)



Experiences:
(These are NOT fetishes. Look that word up, please.)

-Blindfolds
-Bondage
(From lightly restrained to completely immobile. From ropes, tape, scarves to expensive bondage gear)
-Bukkake and cum eating
(From snowballing to "forced".)
-Butt plugs
(Though not longer than a twelve hour period.)
-CBT
(Usually restraints and with little pain. I LOVE having my balls tied and or separated! Nothing heavy, see further below.)
-Crossdressing
(From simply hose and panties to shaving completely and dressing up to go out in public. I no longer shave or own any lingerie or make-up, but I am able to purchase and shave upon request.)
-Exhibitionism
(In the right public places that are gay friendly.)
-Flogging/whipping
(From light whipping to heavy spanking, though I cringe at heavy pain.)
-Gags
-Glory holes
-Hoods and masks
-Leather
(I do not own, nor can afford leather items.)
-Prolonged anal
(Especially while tied up.)
-Prolonged bondage
(unless with pre-arranged notice, nothing longer than three hours)
-Prolonged or orgasm denial
(A favorite of mine; being locked into a chasity device during sex with no stimulation. I do not allow myself an orgasm for months or longer! The orgasm I do have are either nocturnal emissions or brought on by prostate massage; i.e. receiving long periods of anal sex!)
(NOTE:
I cum easily, which means I can come with out notice when being sucked off or jacked off. Especially when being anally penetrated!)
-Strap-ons
-Toys
(Anal beads, dildoes, eggs, vibrators, ect...)


Interests:
(These I have not tried, but I am open to trying once, and if I enjoy them, will again! Unless noted, with me on the receiving end.)
-Bareback
(Only when we have had a long standing sexual relationship and std tests have been conducted.)
-Bondage clubs
-Ecstasy or non intravenous drugs during sexual encounters
(With the right partner.)
-Fisting
-Forced bi
(Giving or receiving.)
-Forced oral
(Where I am tied up, completely immobile; with an o-ring gag that keeps my mouth fully open. I have a gag reflex that is very sensitive)
-Forced voyeurism
(While restrained, "forced" to watch others having sex in real life, not a movie/video.)
-Fucking machines
-Gang bang
-Golden enema
(With the right partner when barebacking has been introduced. This is when you anally insert your erect cock and urinate inside of me.)
-Golden showers\watersports
-Group scenes
-Hair pulling
(During doggy style intercourse or forced oral.)
-Homemade porn
-Kidnapping/rape
-Pimped out
("forcing" me to have sex with others for money)
-Public sex
-Spitting
-Spit roast
-Suspension
-Tens or electro stimulation
-Threesomes



Experiences that I will not do again, or ever try:

-Blood play
(Anything that involves blood, as well as menstruation. I.E. Needle play, knife play, caning, ect...)
-Breath play
-Heavy CBT
(This means no "ball busting", kicking, or grinding. Basically any activity that involves medium-serious pain to the groin.)
-Scat
(This is anything feces related. Giving or receiving, even rimming of an unclean hole.)

These lists may be amended in the future, this is simply what I have come up with at the moment.


Men:
(Whether you are Gay, Bi)
I am attracted to all races and sizes. (Though being seriously obese is a turn off.)
The age and demeanor is what I am usually picky about.
You must be at least my age. (I am particularly attracted to those twenty years older or more than I am. You can call that having a "daddy complex" if you wish)
Please have a take charge demeanor while still respecting my boundaries.

If you are younger than I am and or shy {in the bedroom at least}, than you have already wasted your time. For that I apologize.

Exception:
If a dom (M/F) has a sub male, or if I am "forced" to satisfy any male that is younger than I am of legal age.

Women or TG:
Must be dominant/switch and looking for a "gay" sub.
As close to height and weight proportionate as what you would view as attractive. (If you have a "gut" I apologize, but that is not attractive to me)
Age-no boundaries, just be of legal age.


Alot of people in the B/D D/S community have contacted me saying that as a sub, I should not be making demands for a partner.
To this I respond:
I am honest with myself while being honest with you.

If I were lie to myself in what I find attractive or appealing in a partner, than I would not have a satisfying experience, and would not please my partner fully, would I?
I do not "top from the bottom", I simply know what I am seeking in a partner.

Feel free to send me an email.
Especially if you are interested.
I currently do not have pictures of myself, though hopefully that will soon change.
(I am looking for a discreet photographer, or simply someone that owns a DIGITAL camera for a photo shoot. I am poor so, if you charge an outrageous price, I apologize in advance for screaming obscenities about the bill)

Alot of you have asked, after reading my profile, what I would like to do in a real life encounter...
Basically, if you go here http://www.free-hardcore.com/ (this is Kink.coms preview pages) picture me as the submissive (with the exception of waterbondage and ultimate surrender) I am willing to try anything you see there...

I am looking for those that are not a "pay to play" or professional...
just real people... thank you...
-Daniel

MyTultomousLife
 
 Age: 35
 Manassas, Virginia