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Hetero Female Dominant, 54,  Long Island, New York
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 Dominant Female

 Long Island 

 New York

 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Sub/Sub Couples


 Fine Dining



 Musical Theater


 Anal Play (Expert)



 Body Worship

 Breast Binding/Play

 Canes and Crops



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Massage (Getting)

 No Strings Housework

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Strap-Ons/Packers (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)


 Female Supremacy

 Country Music


 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets




 Corner Time


 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Wax play




 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Garage Sales



 Curious About:

 Electrical Play


 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping


 Renaissance Faires











 Pantyhose Fetish

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Hard Limits:


I am a BBW Domme. Always love chatting with curious men on their desires to see what it feels like to give themselves completely to a Domme.  To just say "Yes Maam" and know you are pleasing.  Knowing that inside you are shaking and squirming with anticipation of what comes next. Understanding that the Domme/sub relationship is not about sex, but the willingness to give your body and mind up to a Domme. To see that look on her face that you are pleasing and serving her in the manner she is seeking.  I am considering a full time submissive at this time. I am not looking for a LTR romantically.  There has to be a strong connection for me to accept you as my submissive. You must be fairly local to me and be able to host.  I expect to see you a minimum of once a week.  I am not looking for someone to relocate.  Experienced or new to the lifestyle is not important as you will be molded into the submissive that I desire.  I do not accept a submissive that has a limit on forced-bi or being with other men.

On the flip side of that, I am also a Pro Domme that sessions when asked. Now do not put down a Domme because they are a Pro, for some that is the way they wish to experience their submissive side or are able to experience this lifestyle.  Please do not have an attitude when you write me about being a Pro Domme. I have been open and honest about it and I do not approach submissives trying to get them to have a Pro Session with me.  If you are interested you contact me.  If it is not you interest that is fine, but do not judge me as I do not judge you. I enjoy talking with submissives to learn what makes you tick. Feel free to say hello.  I wish you all find what you are seeking.  For those who are interested the artist who did the picture is Namio Harukawa

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Journal Entries:
5/17/2017 12:13:54 PM
I am looking for a submissive who is interested in yard service and other outside chores.  There will be no other type of service required.  This will be done with discretion as I do not live alone.  It would be weekly as needed.  ONLY serious submissives who are local to me need apply.

3/26/2017 3:43:14 PM
Is it really so hard for submissives to be truthful? I hear all the time Dommes are out to use, they lie etc. Let me inform you that submissives do the same. They tell you they will serve you in such and such a manner and they change thier minds. They talk to you email after email and when you go to move forward you are blocked, the closed their account, etc. I am tired of wasting my time. PLEASE do not contact me if you are not going to do as stated, talked about or agreed upon. I do not take this lifestyle lightly. I have in my profile I enjoy talking to submissives which I do but I am not here to help you get off. Call a pay by the minute service for that.

7/1/2016 11:39:54 AM
I need a pedi and a good foot massage

11/24/2014 11:01:29 PM

Please do not contact me to be my submissive without reading my full profile. I am always looking for a submissive. I will never be the type of Dominant as of now that will have just one submissive. If you can not accept that please do not write to me asking to be mine. If you do you MUST MUST MUST be able to host. Don't have a roommate where you tell me that you can only see me when he is not there. That is unacceptable to me. You must live on LI as I will only travel so far. Submissives should know that I do not jump into anything quickly. I talk to you on here. I ask questions, we communicate. If I feel you are a good match I will agree to a meet and greet in a public place for us to talk. It is a simple meet and greet. Does not mean I am accepting you. I take my time and if you are not willing to be patient while I do so, simply move on to find what you are seeking with no hard feelings.

Submissives ask me all the time what do I have to do. It is simple after the connection is there and limits agreed upon, give yourself up freely to me. Do not expect me to tell you everything I am going to do to you or with you. Let it come as it comes. I do not expect you to spend thousands of dollars on me. Do I like to spoiled, of course who doesn't. I am still a woman and like to be treated as such in those aspects. If you want my attention you need to get it in a way that keeps me interested in you and talking with you. You need to show me that I will come first when it comes to serving me. That your interests are always second to mine and you will expect yours not to be met. But to be joyous when they are. I am a very passionate Domme. My subs are well nurtured and know I care about them and want the best for them and strive to make sure they get it. I am tough but fair. I am loving but hard. I am honest but will bend the truth when it is needed to push you further if I know you can handle it. I accept you for you and expect the same in return.

I know what I want and I will not accept anything but. If it sounds harsh I am sorry but I am confident enough to know not to waste my time or yours.

I get asked questions all the time and am usually happy to answer them. I try to always be honest and give you my opinion. If you do not like what I have to say that is fine you are entitled to your opinion.

If you are Dominant and going to approach me, pleaserespectme and speak to me with that respect as I would you. Do not write to me to be your bitch or anything else. That simply shows me you have no clue what it is to be a Dominant and I will simply block you for your ignorance. If you are Dominant and approach me to serve me, you must explain why you wish to. Chances are you have been secretly submissive the whole time and are now just accepting that about yourself and good for you to finally do so. If you are truly Dominant you could never see yourself in the submissive role. Many do not agree with me on this but trust me it is the truth. I do nothing to a submissive that I have not tried myself just to see how it feels so I can understand how to push the submissive in that area. Knowing I am giving up control for that slightest bit of time makes me want to scream. You can protest to the fact you are a switch I will never agree. I do not believe in them.

I know this post is rather lengthy but I hope is sums up some of the continuous questions I get weekly. As always you can say hello and chat. The chat on here freezes my computer so I do not use it but email is always nice.

As always I wish everyone luck on the journey in this lifestyle. It can be amazing with the right person. Do not stop looking for what you want just be patient enough to find it.


6/27/2014 9:34:00 AM
Please note:  If you have forced-bi as a limit please do not contact me other than for chat.  I will not accept a submissive if that is a limit for them.  Thank you!!

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