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I live in Minnesota. Site wont adjust my distance.

The dream scenario would be a long-term relationship including our kinks. A relationship with an overtone of Ds, and obviously much more than overtones when desired. However, thats a tough thing to find. Ds relationship is ok too.



I have many interests outside of BDSM. Travel, music, movies, writing, theater, just to name a few. Finding someone with whom I can explore all of the above would be cool.



Im ok with a play partner if thats as far as it goes too. I can be quite the pervert, with some pretty kinky interests. Not into pain for the sake of pain itself, and not into big pain. I like the pleasurepain concept and the mindfuck that comes with it. I like mixing vanilla with BDSM too. Scenario example where we go to the movies and you wear a remote controlled toy and I force you into orgasm in a crowded theater. Its my idea of 247. Not micromanaging, but knowing that I own you at all times. --------- begin ideal person ---------------

My Ideal Person

Sane, common sense, intelligence, andemotional honesty. She takes care of herself. Craves to be a mans slut, but the right man. No experience necessary. I like molding her into the role, but love an experienced sub as well. Teaching her to be everything she can and more.

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3/26/2023 3:15:03 PM

wondering if the site is being maintained again.  i'm afraid to make profile changes because last time it took years to get it updated.

 

5/18/2016 6:31:17 PM
wow....back online.  very cool
2/22/2012 7:37:45 PM

people who post pics solely of "stuff"...animals, mountains, whatever.  spare me.

8/25/2011 5:41:59 PM

here's a red flag...when someone cannot spell the name of the place they claim to be from...probably a fake profile...and not just a bimbo from gainesville :)

2/24/2011 10:51:09 PM

i'm often amazed at the insecurities in some doms.  i love when i read a sub's profile and it says that her dom is reading all of her mail, or she is forbidden from corresponding with men.  that just screams of a dom who is no dom at all, just a control freak.  i love it.

5/31/2010 6:21:49 PM
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1/29/2010 2:39:05 PM
well, i'm off anti-biotics this weekend.  last weekend was same thing and my fever came back.  here's hoping a weeks worth of two anti-b's killed this damn germ off.  shouldn't take long to find out.
1/19/2010 1:21:05 AM
nope...flu...104 fever
1/16/2010 5:32:07 AM
wow, i have a respiratory infection.  it's kind of impressive actually.  it's like acid has been poured down my throat.  where's my sexpot caregiver when i need her?
1/2/2010 5:53:51 PM
i love it.  i got the below email from someone who must have read what i posted over three months ago.  THREE months ago, YMP.  i love it because she blocked me after sending it, obviously fearing some sort of backlash on my part.  good stuff.  just a wee bit passive/aggressive?  too funny.

given her logic, if anyone ever complains or gets tired of anything...you should cease interacting with it at once!

too bad, she seemed kind of sexy.

the email:
"bitch and complain .. GO AWAY from here if it is soooo bad.  sorry if that is rude but to read you complain but you are still here.. if you don't like it here.. GO "
11/17/2009 8:25:45 PM
i want to bind you in humiliating ways and take you.
11/9/2009 5:18:52 PM
anyone in atlanta area looking for a wii fit?  i have one, unopened.  i'll sell if for what i paid...95.00.  all you have to do is pick it up.
9/8/2009 3:57:23 PM
i'm really, really tired of most of you.  it's a site of fakes these days.  i don't just mean guys pretending to be women.  i mean women who pretend like they're really seeking real time, when in reality it doesn't get past the telephone. 

waste of time.
8/24/2009 9:27:14 PM
i got an email in my bulk folder from a gay male slave in chicago.  it was the funniest thing because he talked about how interested he was in a dom male, etc.  he ended by letting me know that he was ok with me being straight.

well, isn't it my lucky day!  someone i couldn't possibly have less interest in, and in my profile make no reference to be seeking, has let me know that he's willing to consider me.

wtf...the world always seems to have plenty of room for morons. 
6/27/2009 8:10:52 PM
i'm not watching nearly enough porn.
4/30/2009 9:51:41 PM
in the mid 80's i lived in new york.  i took some acting classes at a highly respected school.  the thing i'll never forget is the number of attractive women in the class.  i remember one specifically, she was a dancer who hurt her knee so was going to act.  she was cute as hell.  she was a dancer for godssake.  she flirted with me after class and what did i do about it?  nothing.  my god, what a numbskull.  i wouldn't know a hint if it fell from the sky and crashed through my roof.
4/23/2009 11:02:06 PM
i'm out of the closet.  i'm a writer.  there, i said it.  i may earn money doing other things, but writer is my occupation.
4/18/2009 8:48:34 PM

I was on the Frolicon website looking at pictures from past events.  Let me just say that you'll never see me in a photo from Frolicon.

4/4/2009 10:31:52 PM
i'm a big fan of the Sex and Submission website.  if you're a fan, we're probably a good fit.  of course, i like their other sites too. 
6/27/2008 10:49:31 PM
things are looking up on the 'life' front, so i'm more open to meeting.  however, i do prefer someone in my area...but for someone exceptional, i'll make...well, an exception.
6/5/2008 7:06:52 PM
i've decided to drastically curtail my search. there are other things in my life that need attention. though i might be logged into the site often, it will reflect in emails i send and parameters of my search. highly unlikely i'll be interested in anyone outside of the atlanta area and will only seek people with certain characteristics that i choose to keep to myself.
4/25/2008 5:50:13 PM

I wrote this with one slave in mind, but if it's not her...perhaps you...

let's assume we're established in our relationship...

i see us out for an evening, you dressed to the nines. perhaps we're at the Fox or at the new Cobb theater for the opera...a charity event, or a business function. i love how you carry yourself. intelligent, regal, stunning, gregarious. i also know that there's a mental leash between us. perhaps it's a way i touch you, or a whisper in your ear...as you excuse yourself to the ladies room to insert a nice plug to serve as a reminder of who you are, while maintaining that same persona to the world (not to mention how i love knowing your hole is plugged for my pleasure).

more importantly, what i love is knowing that for that evening you're presenting as the well-rounded delight that you are...but at nights end you'll be kneeling before me in the lingerie i allow, and that lie beneath your earlier attire...kneeling, awaiting my command.

perhaps it's a friday...and the rest of the weekend you're only permitted to wear heels and one article of clothing in public...and in private those same heels...a waist bracelet signifying our bond...and anything else i feel will accentuate my objectifying of you as my cherished property. our time dedicated to your training and use.

i couldnt be more sincere. i've not taken the time to write a more detailed email before. my mistake. time will show that i'm a gentleman who adores and protects his submissive...and trains her to be his delicious slut and so much more.

to find that one person, build that connection, and enjoy...nice

4/14/2008 6:55:26 PM
At this point, I've decided to have my parents "arrange" a BDSM relationship for me.
4/11/2008 7:20:25 PM
Waist update - down 1/2 inch since last update.  So it's 2.5 inches of the gut since the New Year.  My motivation flatlines and I need to find that inspiration to get me through it.  They say that can come from a variety of sources.  I could probably use a combination of them.
3/25/2008 2:28:57 PM
This afternoon I have a sub coming over for training.  She doesn't know this yet, but from now on she won't be allowed to enter my home clothed.  This means still remove clothes before she knocks on the door.

Pity it's not dark yet.
2/27/2008 5:40:38 PM
Waist update - down two inches since 02Jan, translating to 20 lbs.  Pretty good considering I'm not particularly pleased with my exercise at this point.

Diet-wise I've been pretty strong.  I quit eating crap (not literally, you scat people).  Just cut emotional eating to a minimum.  I realized after a short time of going without garbage eating, it's no longer worth gaining weight to eat it.

It's all coming out in my pop-up book.
2/20/2008 6:59:43 PM
Seems I can't swing a dead cat without hitting a flake these days.
2/9/2008 12:03:57 AM
I have to tell you, I really wonder about people on here sometimes.  Well, some people.  I've seen subs that are on this system for 24hrs and the next thing you know, they under consideration from dom so and so.

Am I missing something here?  It seems some on here enter into an exclusive situation immediately upon meeting someone.  Think about that in the vanilla world now.  How many people enter into an exclusive relationship after knowing someone for 24hrs?

To each his/her own, but I definitely get the impression that some people can't go it alone for too long.

Just interesting is all.
1/24/2008 12:19:16 PM

Well, dropped 1/2 inch off the waist in three weeks.  I'm in the zone now, so I know it's just a matter of time.

Started running again.  Slow going now, but I'm thinking of running another marathon, or at least a half.  Need to lose more before I can seriously train though.

Perhaps some cross-training by conducting some real-time training.  Any volunteers? :)

11/30/2007 9:46:25 PM
Things are going well.  Only one thing missing...one person to train, use, abuse, protect, enjoy...and bring to perfection as my slut. 
11/21/2007 6:09:42 PM
I haven't made an entry in awhile, so I went back and read my last one.  Well, Taekwondo proved to be...boring...and would have gotten very expensive...so it's no more.

I'm trying to come up with a really good incentive for myself to get to 200 lbs.  Any suggestions?  It should be one of the things I've wanted for a long time.  I can't really think of one, so someone else's ideas would be helpful.  I plan on coming up wth my own for other milestones...5lbs, 10lbs.

Perhaps some delicious sub out there will want to give herself to me for a weekend.  Kidding...
8/24/2007 6:33:30 PM
For those of you who don't know me, my normal weight is about 200 lbs. The past few years I've had some job losses (outsourcing) and put on some weight.  I've struggled to reestablish that exercise I enjoy.  I'd been a marathon/distance runner and well, you've been outside lately!   dropped 10lbs. so far. I'm embarking on a new exercise, hobby, etc.  Taekwondo.  I'm hoping I love it.

If anyone out there wants help with their working out, I really do know quite a bit about it.  Also, if you're nearby I'd even be willing to work you out, keep you motivated, and make you accountable.  Just ask...
7/17/2007 6:32:19 PM
i'm a pretty easygoing guy and that appearance probably makes some submissives think that i'm not a strict, demanding dominant.  i dont feel i need to play a part by acting all badass when i meet someone.  as they say, still waters run deep.
5/28/2007 7:27:50 PM

i recently corresponded with someone on another site.  i say "someone" because it never got past emails and chatting.  she described herself as a 28yo submissive from the atlanta area.  a college student, fit, active, and eager to learn about bdsm.

in our first chat she confessed to being 44, not 28 because "that's what guys want".  too funny.  in an email she then told me she lived in florida but has friends in atlanta.  lol...i guess that means i'm in london then...because i have friends there.

i emailed her and told her that, at this point, i doubt 'she' was even female and that there wasn't any point to this.

dishonesty is easy to pull of online because so few people ever meet.  that's an extreme example, but there are worse that i've never experienced...the married person cheating.  i've talked with others where i can pick up little lies here and there.  i come across pretty casual about things like that, but this elephant does not forget.

i try to be as honest as i can.  what you read is what you get.  how else can a relationship start?

5/27/2007 8:24:45 AM
S was a submissve I trained and enjoyed.  She was pretty courageous for some so inexperienced.  I was impressed that even in her inexperienced beginning she rarely questioned.  She was trained to appear at my door wearing only skirt, stockings, and heals.  The door bell would ring and there she'd be, her hard nippled 34D breasts exposed for my pleasure.  I always knew what to expect when I invited her in and inspected what had become my pussy.  Soaked.  Once trust is gained, there are so few things a devoted submissive won't do to please her master.  And that pleasing of her master took her breath away.
5/26/2007 2:16:11 PM
today is the perfect day to have a submissive at my side.  as i work around the house, she'd be dressed in her best slutwear, available for my pleasure at all times.  whether it's just her seated in my backyard as i work,  spreading herself wide, wide open for me to see; or her on her knees ready to take my deeply down her mouth as i wish.

either way...a good day...M
EraIncendia
 
 Age: 38
 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma