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Seeking mind/body/soul connection with sexy 'male wife' sub who seeks a Long Term Female-Led Relationship.
p.s. all of my photos are fairly recent. This is what i look like. I am 50, i just don't have grey hair (good genes) ;-)
UPDATE 7/11/11
After spending my entire adult life raising children and holding down the fort... I have the itch to move, do something different, somewhere different. I keep trying to scratch that itch but it won't go away. So, i have my house up for rent and am planning to make my move. BUT, the problem is that I don't know where I want to go! This is a real problem.
After much thought... and introspection... I acknowledge that there are many places I'd like to go, but the trouble is in picking ONE.
Well now, what if, I didn't have to choose ONE? what if... I could choose them ALL?!
So, here's my idea; to wander around in a motor home until that ONE spot to settle down again becomes apparent to me.
To be clear; I would not undertake this adventure as a means to an end, a task to be completed, a goal to be fulfilled... BUT rather, a Journey to be enjoyed and to be learned from.
...and here's where YOU come in~ I need a co-pilot.
Requirements:
*A Dr. Lic.
*Naturally submissive (not a wannabe)
*Honest
*Playful
*Communicative.
*Broad-minded.
*A spirit for adventure.
**Strong sexual appetite.
*not a slave~ you want a companion.
*You understand~ FLR
*You will do most of the driving~ i will be telling you which way to go.
*Financial ability to (at least) meet me in the middle.
See >> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMR5JVo21wQ&feature=player_embedded
(right click on the link and select "open in new tab)"
Does this tickle your funny bone? Does this inspire your inner-child? Do you feel FUN while watching this video?
If you answered yes to all of the above questions and feel the enthusiasm welling up inside you... YOU should contact me!
Use "let's go" in your message subject line.
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I am~ a natural born Alpha Female but am new to this D/s lifestyle by definition... but have always felt uncomfortable in the traditional male dominant relationship arrangement... and wondering why it took me so long to find this venue of individuals who seek the same?! The more I learn, the more I know this is me!! I have spent most of my adult life living in the country, raising kids (now grown), taking in unwanted or sick animals, raising and riding horses, and persuing my entrepreneurial business interests. I am unique, assertive, kind, gentle, intelligent, curious, independent, natural, intuitive, spiritual, open-minded, playful, affectionate, compassionate, eclectic, bohemian, passionate, ambitious, occasionally bossy, matriarchal, protective, natural leader, and highly sensual... with a taste for being on top ;-)
You are~ A non-drinker (or very light drinker), single, straight (you enjoy sex and intimacy with a woman), clean, financially responsible, interesting, unemcumbered, honest, sincere, open-hearted, emotionally available, intelligent, compassionate, playful, sensual, reasonably well-endowed with a very healthy sexual appetite, D&D free, you truly believe that women are the superior mind/sex, you are protective (of me)... and you are willing to listen and learn with an open mind and willing heart. Please note: though I truly believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way, I do have a very distinct taste when it comes to the men I am attracted to... men who are height/weight proportionate or just slightly chubby, not bald, little to moderate body hair, and who are very near my own age or younger but at least age 30. Yes, I am being very specific, because I am seeking someone very specific.
Together~You wear a masculine sexiness on the outside but have a well defined boyish and vulnerable inner lining. I have a tomboy / earthy exterior but am more WOMAN than most men can handle! Together we explore new heights. Our shared hearts become the impetus for continued and strived for intimacy. I will not beat you but I will f@#k you in the ass (if you like)! I will not ask you to kiss my feet but I will expect you to kiss my ass. I will ask for your opinions and will value your input but will ultimately follow my own hunches or intuitions. Getting the picture? To be clear... I'm looking for an intimate friend, playmate, lover, partner kind of subby... communication and intimacy is paramount to me.
MUTUAL~ respect and a sense of genuine concern for our welfare and happiness as a couple are the overall theme for our togetherness. We trust, honor and love each other. You will be my wind as I am your sail.
P.S.~ I love it when you say "yes Maam" ;-)
Note: If your intention is to top from the bottom; you are into Pain, you are seeking a woman to support you financially, you are married, you are chasing a fantasy, or are in any way manipulative... please keep looking as you will not find satisfaction with me!
Namaste'
UPDATE~ I now understand why some sub males want their fem fantasies FORCED upon them... By allowing someone else to play the 'villain' and to MAKE the fantasy happen, the guilt that the submissive male ordinarily feels (a persistent shame and/or embarrassment about their fantasies) can be relieved and they can enjoy the concept of acting and feeling feminine. BUT, this makes for a lot of xtra work for me. Actually, in my experience, it ends up being "all about" the sub male and leaves very little to do with the female because she spends all of her time trying to figure out his needs and MAKING him feel what he wants to feel. Give till it hurts?? ha!
Now wait a minute! If the sub male simply ACCEPTED his fem nature as natural for him and allowed himself to be whatever he is without shame or guilt, wouldn't this make things much easier for everybody?
To be clear; I am not interested in anyone who wants me to be bigger, stronger, badder, meaner so he can feel better about himself. I'm not going to change or put on an act for anyone, and I shouldn't have to! I am an independent alpha female, but I am also a loving and compassionate person who thrives on true intimacy and who does NOT take pleasure in inflicting pain or torture or humiliation. This I am sure of.
What i seek is a companion who is comfortable with himself inside and outside (i enjoy sensitive men with a feminine streak). He knows his own mind and knows how to act independently but feels confidant in letting me take the lead, because taking the lead is what is natural for me.
So screw all the self-incrimination and the head games! Life is too short to allow social conditioning the last word on how you will conduct your very own life! Get real and stay real!!! "To Thine Ownself Be True".
So~ if you think you fit my description and you feel that we'd make a nice match then please do introduce yourself and include 1 or more pictures which include your face. I will no longer respond to contacts who will not provide their indentity to me.
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Humm, i thought maybe it would be a good idea to add to my description of my taste in men.
For those of you who think you are plain or not good looking, or too shy... this is for you ;-)
I enjoy shy men :-)
I enjoy simple, earthy men ;-)
I have found the most pleasure and connection with men who are not considered good looking ;-)
I enjoy men who will allow themselves to giggle like a girl (if that is their personality)
I enjoy men who are noticeably fem in their own unique way ;-)
I enjoy artistic/creative/musical men ;-)
I enjoy men who like to cook :-P
I enjoy men who enjoy domestic work ;-)
most of all;
I enjoy men who are attracted to ME... in all my Feminine/masculine glory! It is good to be well-rounded ;-)
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I woke up feeling restless today... it happens sometimes and lasts for a day or three, then i just settle back into my routine and forget about changing anything for a while.
But, each time I Wonder... what am I doing with my life here in this place? The kids are grown. I've got an empty house, nobody here but me... and the pets. With all the upkeep and the things "to do" to keep this place afloat. But why? Why would I want to continue to do this all by myself. I feel like life is passing me by!
I found an awesome website today: http://www.frugal-rv-travel.com
I have thought of Rv'ing it before but thought it might be too expensive, and where would I go? By myself?
So, this note is for any submissive male reading it and thinking... "why would I want to keep doing "it" (whatever it is for you) by myself, and... I feel like life is passing me by".
Sound like you?
Then perhaps we should meet... see if there is a "clique", and maybe we can start a new adventure! Today. Before life really does pass us by!!
Namaste' |
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