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ClaremoreDom

I'm sorry that I'm not willing to post a public picture, but I have no problem sending it privately. There are too many fakers on here for me to feel comfortable displaying it.

Well, what can I say about myself? A lot, I suppose. I like to be thorough when describing things.
I'm tall, dark (mentally at least)...I'm extremely intelligent, with a constant thirst for knowledge. When I set my mind to something...if the interest is there, I learn it fast, and retain it.
Unfortunately, I'm a bit shy, which has restricted my social life in the past. That said, the people who do end up close to me have a hard time believing I'm introverted at all...I suppose I just need to try harder. Especially with the group I care to meet most...submissive females.
I have no interest in sports and most other forms of typical "guy" stuff...but I am a bit of an eccentric, with many interests (some more unusual than others). I'm generally polite and well-mannered, and believe in taking good care of my future submissive partner and treating her with the utmost respect.
She will need to be able to trust me and my judgement, and of course expect I will have to earn that trust. I'm not expecting anything to happen overnight. Trust, respect, and communication should be the foundation of any relationship...vanilla and BDSM alike. Of course...vanilla is so boring. Why would anyone want to live that way? Well...I don't, that I know for sure. I refuse to waste my time on anyone who can't so much as communicate in clear, complete sentences. And despite the current internet communication fads, I would like to see grammar and punctuation and...like...whole words and stuff, ok? A novel concept for most I know, but I'm sure I'm not the only one. I have a strong sense of honor and will not treat my submissive as property or less than human, the way some doms feel they are entitled to do.
I believe a submissive should submit of her own free will. She needs to desire to be dominated, but also loved and cherished as a person. I want to learn my submissive's likes and dislikes...find out what she can and cannot take. And I intend to use that information to both pleasure and torment her, without breaking her limits. After all, that's what a proper submissive enjoys, isn't it?
I do not expect to live 24/7 as dom/sub...at least not overtly. I want to enjoy everything life has to offer with my submissive. Go to concerts...nice dinners...I'm a hopeless romantic by nature, and that can be expected to show. I want to treat my submissive well...and I'm not just talking about in the bedroom/dungeon... Below I will list my ultimate goals...though I don't expect I'll find that perfect one right away. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in making new friends and playmates for the short term...and they can expect to be treated just as well as any potential long-term partner would. Any relationship should begin as just "testing the waters" and evolve from their...regardless of direction it takes. What I expect from my future sub: • She will submit fully, but willingly, to me. • She will be my lover. • She will be my muse. • She will be my best friend. What my future sub cane expect from me: • I will be her lover. • I will be her sensual tormentor. • I will be her protector. • I will be her best friend.
What sort of woman I'm looking for: • Looks DO matter, of course, but I'm flexible. • 18-26 is my preferred age range. • Slim to average builds are good. • Height is largely irrelevant to me. • A desire to stay in good shape for herself and her dominant. • I like all sorts of breasts. I don't care if you're flat or have DD's. • I want a nice face...cute, sexy, I don't care which. • I prefer flesh to tattoos or piercings, but I'm flexible. Just tell me what you have. • A healthy libido, and a mind that craves kinky sexual experiences. • PERSONALITY! Please...have some!

Well, that about sums up what I can think of for now. If you're intrigued, why not chat me up a bit? We can learn a lot more than way, now can't we?
3/14/2012 8:08:37 PM

Hmmm, looks like communicating clearly and intelligently may pay off after all. Fascinating...

2/18/2012 5:00:21 PM

I've been writing some very long messages to people who interested me...which apparently went unopened because I didn't have a profile pic. So much for being discreet...at least I offered to send pictures privately in the messages.

 

Doesn't do much good to say that if they don't get opened, now does it? So I'm posting an edited pic.

 

That said...if you want to see my unobscured face, you'll just have to message me/reply to one of my messages. Now, let's see if someone actually reads my damn messages for a change.

AboveRubies
 
 Age: 31
  Nebraska