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Hetero Male Dominant, 34,  San Francisco, California
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I seek a relationship in which I fulfill all of my lady's fantasies and she fulfills mine. Sounds pretty simple, right? My ultimate goal is to find a woman in a lifelong relationship (marriage, possibly kids), who compliments me, kinkwise, and shares my vision of a happy future. She, like me, must be kind, compassionate, funny, sensitive, an introspective extrovert, successful and have disdain for apathy. She, like me, must also be aggressive, nasty and up for anything, anytime, anywhere. I get most turned on when my partner is absolutely enjoying everything that's happening. The kind of sex that comes only from knowing my partner so well that, even though we have a safe word, we don't actually need one. The kind of sex that leaves us both sweaty and exhausted. The kind of sex that makes the neighbors need a cigarette and a priest. Until I find this woman, however, sky's the limit as far as playing is concerned. I've played saxophone almost all my life, as well as most other woodwinds and latin hand percussion. I traveled all over the place with touring bands when I was younger, but have had a steady gig at a local circus/theater for the past nine years. My degree from UCLA is in Ethnomusicology, which is, in essence, anthropology of music, so if you want to know about the xylophone traditions of the southern/eastern African countries, I'm your man:-) I don't like to hate things, but these are a few of the things I really don't like. Everybody who's driving in front of me, apathy, people who make other people feel like shit just cuz (unless that's the game we're playing), Highland Scotch, arguing, hipster dudes with unkept facial hair in skinny jeans who smell like they just fucked a bum, people who use their kids as shields for their political bullshit or cause, and boring sex. I really love old stuff; clothes, style, cars, music, gentlemanly ways, ladylike ways, history, furniture and sayings. I also love sports and this, Nobody would know that I'm a kinkster unless the subject came up in conversation, which it often does. I treat people with respect. I treat strangers like I've known them my whole life. I'll be amazing to you until you give me a reason not to.











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 Dominant Male

 San Francisco 


 5' 7"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)




 Golf (Expert)


 Art Galleries (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Movies (Expert)


 Musical Theater (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)



 Hiking (Expert)

 Pilates (Beginner)



 Canes and Crops





 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Shibari  (Beginner)


 Wax play

 Board Games

 Card Games (Expert)


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Science Fiction

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing


 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics





 1950s Lifestyle

 Old Guard

 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Folk Music



 Rock Music





 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Fishing (Beginner)


 Going to the Opera

 Shopping (Expert)

 Aerobics (Beginner)

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Hunting (Beginner)




 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Electrical Play

 Housework Service



 Obedience Training (Beginner)

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)


 Comedy Shows


 Puzzle Games






 Lifestyle BDSM



 Alternative Music


 Country Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music

 Opera Music


 Pop Music



 Seventies Music

 Feng Shui




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 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music


 Show Tunes


 Catholicism (Expert)



 Auto Racing

 Ice Hockey




 Curious About:


 Sailing (Beginner)

 Surf Boarding



 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Knife Play (Beginner)

 Needle Play (Beginner)




 Political Activism







 Sky Diving




 Skate Boarding

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Gas Masks

 Masks (Wearing)

 Female Supremacy

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 New Age Music




 Goth Lifestyle

 Hard Limits:

 Raves (Beginner)


 Genital Punishment

 Conservative Politics

 Libertarian Politics



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