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Hetero Male Dominant, 32,  Ohio
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I am a Dominant and Sadist who has been in the lifestyle for 13 years. I am involved in an open relationship with my live-in partner of almost ten years. We are involved in a D/s relationship, where she is my slave. She also enjoys dominating others, so having an open relationship allows her that outlet, but that is, of course, with my blessing. I believe that we are not meant to be monogamous, by nature. As such, with honest, open communication, we can enjoy relationships that bring different things to our lives than what the others in our lives give to us.

I enjoy knife play, crops, mental domination, humiliation, degradation, wax play, orgasm control and denial, sadism, and various other things. Non-lifestyle related I enjoy movies, music, video games, sports, hanging out with friends, and having intellectual conversations. As much as I am a Dominant and enjoy degradation and humiliation, I am also a Gentleman. I enjoy taking care of a girl, especially after scening. I like to have her curl up in my arms, knowing I make her feel safe and secure.

I am looking for women who are open-minded, between the ages of 25 and 38, preferably bisexual. I would like to get to know submissives or slaves. I would like to take things slow, and get to know you. We can build up a sense of trust and find mutual interests. I warn you, can be evil. I can be stern and demanding. At the same time, I have been in this lifestyle long enough to know that there are a lot of people who do play games. I don't swing that way and will not tolerate it from anyone else.

I also want to mention while I am male (and am recognized as such legally) I have been transitioning from Female to Male for several years. Most people have no idea if I do not tell them. However, I do not like hiding anything from anyone. Honesty is high on my list of priorities, so that is why I want to be honest and up front from the start.








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 Dominant Male







Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:


 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 TV Sports


 Political Activism




 Amusement Parks


 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater




 Begging (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Housework Service

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Knife Play

 Leashes (Expert)

 Needle Play (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)


 Role Playing


 Wax play


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 True Crime



 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Eighties Music

 Hip Hop Music



 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes






 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops

 Going to the Opera


 Anal Play

 Blindfolds (Expert)


 Corner Time (Expert)


 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community



 Medical Play

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation


 Speech Restrictions


 Card Games


 Comedy Shows


 Role Playing Games

 Simulation Games





 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Opera Music


 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Auto Racing


 Street Hockey



 Nineties Music

 Hard Limits:


 Conservative Politics

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