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Hetero Male Submissive, 34,  London, Canada
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Im looking for a dominant switchy personality to eventually share some fun times with.

I am happy, healthy, fit, and with a steady career. Im a bottom, a masochist, a cuddleslut, and occassionally a puppy (depending on who Im with).

Ive been involved with the local LondonKitchener community off and on for nearly 10 years.

Im not interested in this being a fast track relationship, not looking for a fin-dom arrangement, or merely to get laid. I am looking for kinky friends to chat with.
If we are mutually interested in play, there will be negotiations and safety for both of us in place before any sort of play happens. RACK applies.

To me, BDSM isnt about sex. It is about all of those yummy chemicals the body releases through play. Its about finding that shared zen only available in certain headspaces. (This isnt to say that sex is out of the question, but its not my focus.)

If you are interested in a non-clingy, no strings attached, light hearted, kinky, masochistic, semi-geeky bottom please send me a message. Id love to hear from you.

Pictures and verification available upon request. No, they wont be dick pics. If you want a little better insight into who I am, pm me and Ill offer my Fetlife account name.











Last Online:


 Submissive Male



 6' 0"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household


 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining




 Canes and Crops

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling

 Knife Play


 Medical Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay




 Horror Movies

 Photography (Beginner)

 Alternative Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music


 Art Galleries


 Flea Markets

 Renaissance Faires


 Anal Play




 Electrical Play

 Domestic Service

 Housework Service

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)


 Needle Play

 Serving as a Butler

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Public Play




 Wax play


 Board Games

 Card Games

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing




 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music


 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music



 Pop Music




 Seventies Music




 Ice Hockey

 Street Hockey


 Bar Hopping


 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater


 Speech Restrictions



 Blue Grass

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Show Tunes

 Curious About:


 Body Worship





 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Foot Worship



 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial

 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Deprivation


 Vacuum Stimulation





 Gas Masks



 Country Music

 Opera Music





 Hard Limits:



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Journal Entries:
6/5/2017 7:50:36 AM
Location Location Location: If you are not from Ontario, please do not message me. I rarely travel, and when I do it is with family (not for random bdsm hookups). London, Cambridge, K-W, Brantford area prefered. Friendly reminder: I do not support any form of Findom. This is a hard no and you will be blocked. P.S: Please read my profile.

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