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Pan Male Switch, 24,  Los Angeles, California
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I'd rather be tied up than tied down. Less hang ups, more hangovers. I try to live my dream rather than dream my life.

Harro, I'm merk... Or Ciccle. I like terms of endearment, like 'batch' or 'little one' ^_^ I just got a mohawk! And my first tattoo!

I'm an introverted social chameleon, a corporate hippie, a hopeless romantic with non-monogamous tendencies, a logical daydreamer, a self preserving and modest cook, a queer, kinky and unrepentant slut. While this is a recipe for adventures to myself, I hope to find a great person or two (or three...) to be my crazy self with, amplifying the experience.

Little treats are amazing. I love simple foods. Beers and partays. Also physical affection; hugs, cuddling, yada yada yada. I'm pretty flirty, fun, and naughty.

Most things are a joke, and not laughing is a waste. I used to care about changing things in the world, changing people. Then I realized I should just live life and have fun. Now I look for that all day erryday.

I'm a light packer, a good driver, and a wanderlust trip taker. So don't hesitate to ask! I can pull an all-nighter for just about any reason and as frequently as I wish, whether it's for a project, being the DD, or for cuddles.

I'm kind of a nerd, and love intellectual debates or conversations. My Myers-Briggs is IDGAF.

I never danced until I was 21, and now I'm always in the mood. I think my life has gotten better. Sure, I enjoy relaxing at home sometimes, but my past life has been semi reclusive and I'm so very bored with that.

I've always been into a lot of crazy kinky things, but I've only gotten very comfortable with myself in the last year or so. So I'm having fun and looking for more!

Everyone else is throwing out their tumblr, so my personal is irmerk and my porn is wanderFade. Have fun.

I don't take this site all too seriously, but then again I seriously need new friends. All I've come across so far is lame, flakey, timid chumps who don't make time for anything. Also, on that note, I am a very loyal friend - in any level of a good relationship.












Last Online:


 Male Switch

 Los Angeles 


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 130 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Mascdom Couples


A Poly Household

 Lives For:


 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Swinging (Beginner)

 Electronica / EDM

 Atheism (Expert)


 Bar Hopping


 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Garage Sales (Beginner)


 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Shopping (Beginner)


 Bicycling (Beginner)

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Sailing (Beginner)

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Cages (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Collars (Beginner)

 Crossdressing (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling (Beginner)

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing) (Beginner)

 Massage (Getting) (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Public Play  (Beginner)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Vibrators (Beginner)

 Card Games

 Tattoos (Beginner)

 Intellectual Discourse

 Cuckolding (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)

 Pop Music


 Amusement Parks (Beginner)

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Coffee Shops


 Museums (Beginner)

 Camping (Beginner)

 Tickling (Beginner)




 Curious About:

 Beachcombing (Beginner)


 Aerobics (Beginner)


 Yoga (Beginner)

 Begging (Beginner)

 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Breast Play (Beginner)

 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Corner Time (Beginner)

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Dilation (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Enemas (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Domestic Service (Beginner)

 Fisting (Beginner)

 Foot Worship (Beginner)

 Gags (Beginner)

 Housework Service (Beginner)

 Humiliation (Beginner)

 Masks (On Partner) (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)

 Munches (Beginner)

 Obedience Training (Beginner)

 Objectification (Beginner)

 Orgasm Denial (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Plastic Wrap (Beginner)

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Sensory Deprivation (Beginner)

 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)

 Suspension (Beginner)

 Theatrical Scenes (Beginner)

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

 Watersports (Beginner)

 Wax play (Beginner)

 Whips (Beginner)

 Neo-Paganism (Beginner)

 Wicca  (Beginner)


 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts


 Hard Limits:


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